Here's a Great Football Guide for Girlfriends!by Patrick Drewry

It is outlandish that as widely celebrated football is in America, no one ever takes the time to explain what is actually transpiring on the football field! This simple issue impacts ladies more than it does men. Permit me to explain it like this... Regarding football, there are 3 different varieties of ladies: The initial type doesn't care about football - and is unlikely to ever watch football. The next type of female knows at least as much or more about football than any guy. The final sort comprehends very little about football and would unquestionably love to learn more or she is aware of a great deal of things about football but needs to amplify her football knowledge by filling in some gaps. I would like to officially issue a challenge and an invitation to those women that would by no means dream of learning football... and also to those "number 3" type of ladies mentioned above. Now, an impressive tool is accessible for girls who are confused about football!! Presenting, "Gaga for Gridiron - The Ultimate Guide to Football for Women". Gaga for Gridiron is written and published primarily for the last type of lady mentioned above. 'Gaga for Gridiron' is a straight-to-the-point football guidebook that won't obscure what you require to be acquainted with in a great deal of discourse or jargon-heavy chatter. The rules and basics of the game are easily illustrated in a method that will benefit both the naive fan or seasoned fanatic. Are you needing a strategy to bond more with your hubby or suitor? Or quite possibly get closer with a particular male acquaintance you know who enjoys football? This guide may just expand your romantic relationship (or help you get one)!! Certainly one of the finest things about a valuable relationship is sharing common ground regarding something someone you really love is attracted to. If you would like your love life to remain the same, please don't obtain this guide! After going through Gaga for Gridiron, you will definitely possess a greater understanding of the game and be ready to wow your date or hubby with several facts that even he might not know. This seriously isn't a boring football book or drawn out playbook. Just about everything that you want to know to speak intelligently about football - either high school, college or the NFL - essentially remains the same from year-to-year, so once you learn football principals the first time it will stay with you for life - which clearly is a shrewd choice. While other books may leave you unclear and mixed up, the writing style of the author makes this book a rare gem. There is no doubt that you will no longer find the fundamentals of football hard to "tackle", so to say. In part one, the game of football is explained in 10 short, easy to read pages. Refer to the football lexicon as will be necessary when you hear a football expression you would like to be taught more about. Every football expression you would definitely ever need to be on familiar terms with is covered in there; all the football expressions and typical infractions are explained in plain english, along with photos. The book's title claims that it's for women, but truthfully it is for everybody interested in american football. A number of the things addressed are fairly rudimentary, but it will really help give you additional awareness of the sport of football and thus you will enjoy watching the sport more - by yourself or with your guy. This is because you will know more about what is occurring on the field immediately... This book addresses females considering that a lot of men are pretty much introduced to football tradition at a very youthful age. While the girls were playing on the swings during recess, the boys were likely playing football. Though, this book will also reward any guys out there who might have 'fallen through the cracks' concerning football for whatever reason. Gaga for Gridiron is basically an easy to master guide on the fundamentals of football... a reference guide to turn to whenever you might require it. You will always have at your fingertips a speedy and effortless reference book that signals you at once regarding normal football terminology and brief important facts on all the American football clubs. An additional thing you will be completely clear on are the varying defensive and offensive formations. With it's loads of pics and illustrations, you can enlarge your understanding of the game swiftly. Forget about questioning anybody about what is transpiring on the football field - now you can take the quick way to speaking "footballese" like a master!

How To Stop Destroying A Relationshipby Dr. Beth Cuje, LPC, LMFT

Are you having trouble with a relationship? Do you keep repeating the same arguments without resolving them? Are you destroying the relationship? Take a look at the following scriptures and then at some suggestions for resolving your problem. • Don’t be a hypocrite! First clean the inside of your cup and dish that the outside of them may be clean also. -- Matthew: 23:25 • Take the log out of your eye before you try to take the speck out of your brother’s (son, daughter-in-law, husband, friend) eye. -- Ephesians 4:25-27 • Speak the truth in love. -- Ephesians 4:15 • Be angry but do not sin: do not let the sun set on your wrath, nor give place to the devil. -- Ephesians: 4:26-28 If you have tried and failed to keep these commandments, you may be hurting pretty bad. But getting stuck in anger or guilt doesn’t fix the issue. BEING HUMAN GETS IN YOUR WAY; You are a human being. You may be a Christian and want to do God’s will, but when you are very stressed and upset, you are more likely to just react, based on what you feel, think, and need. Why? Because you are human with a human body and an imperfect mind that take over when you get stressed and upset. Jesus was able to always listen to God and do exactly what Father told him to do. You, on the other hand may start with this desire, but unless you have trained your body and mind to stay focused on God, you will find it almost impossible to keep his peace and joy and to do his will. Yes, sometimes you may go numb and feel as if you are in control. But when you are numb, you are not in a position to resolve issues. Also, because you have repeated the same reactions over and over, you have now made it more likely that you will have the same reactions and do the very same things the next time the issue surfaces. Why not try something different? SOMETHING DIFFERENT: I suggest, that as soon as you feel yourself begin to react the old way, you: • Take a deep breath, • Drop your shoulders and unclench your fists, wiggle your toes • Take another deep breath, • Step back and relax. Now, • Pay close attention to your emotions. Doing this will make it easier to do what God’s Word says. Here’s why. When you are feeling stressed and angry, anxious, ashamed, or overwhelmed, stress and your negative emotions lock in distortions and limitations in your thinking. At the same time, stress and your negative emotions hide the whole truth from you. This separates you from God. (God never turns his back on you, you just can’t hear him.) In this state of being, you cannot see the big picture and it is almost impossible to make wise decisions. BECOME AN “OBJECTIVE OBSERVER”: On the other hand, if you “do something different (see above),” you become an “objective observer” of what is happening to you at that moment. As an “objective observer” you are more able to control what you focus on. Your focus determines your level of stress and negative emotions. It works like this. As a conscious observer, you have choice. Now, instead of staying focused on the person, thing, action, or problem that is causing you trouble, you can choose to focus on God and do things his way. You start by dealing with your stress. Then you label your negative emotions and let go of them. (There are tools for this.) This liberates your mind to see all sides of realityâ€"the big picture and to refocus on God and on his Word. Believe me, whatever you focus on, harmful or helpful, will get you more of it! Then the goal here is to stay a conscious observer and “speak the truth in love.” Right? You don’t have to go along with the other person. You don’t have to fix anything. You can disagree with him or her. But right at this moment, you need to stop focusing on the person and the problem and focus on doing do things God’s way in God’s time. (That may mean keeping your mouth shut for the moment.) In my book, Become the Person You Were Meant to Be - The Choice-Cube Method, you can learn how to get rid of stress, let go of your negative emotions and shift your focus back to God and his Word. There are also some simple Choice-Cube tools to help you do this. If you want more information, check out my website http://www.cheatmate.tk