No Time Like the Present: How to Get Girls By Living in the Moment by James B

What's the difference between the guys who just seem to be able to enter any situation and excel, and those who always strike out?
A night at the bar gave me the answer.
A few months ago my friends Cam and Chad and I had just gotten into the pub, ordered our drinks, and observed the scene to see where the honeys were. It's a situation just about every guy can identify with: one of their friends looks around anxiously, locating the girls he thinks he's capable of approaching, and the ones he knows (or thinks) he can't. Cam's fears and nerves were readily obvious. He was so focused on finding out where the action is that he wouldn't notice it if it were right in front of him. In fact, that's exactly what happened.
Then there was my other friend, Chad, the smooth type. Not better-looking than Cam; quite the contrary. Just much more relaxed-and that's what counts. He didn't look around much at all, and this was probably the best thing he could have done. Guys like Chad just relax in their seats, lean back with their drinks, and settle in to see what happens. There's no desperation and anxiety in their faces, which is always a good start.
Chad didn't talk or move around a lot, but what he did do right was notice what was going on. He used his eyes, and he used his ears. Sometimes those are a lot more valuable than your mouth.
A while went by before Chad talked to anybody. Finally he noticed that this girl was speaking a dialect of Spanish he knew. He said something in the dialect that went along with she was saying. She was amazed that he understood the language, and that he had actually listened to what she was saying. So impressed was the chick, who was pretty hot, that she had to find out more about him. His laid-back, "carpe diem" attitude was very inviting. They talked all night, and are still dating now.
Ironically, my friend who had his eyes open the most, Cam, was the one who missed out on opportunities right in front of them. He'd act so worriedly, so nervously, that when this one girl who was interested in him flirted shamelessly, he didn't even notice. I told him, "Dude, that girl wants to talk to you," and all he could think of was his past. "Nah, I've never been able to talk to girls like her." The thing is, He could now! NOW a girl wanted to talk to him. But Cam was thinking so much about how he screwed up in the past, and didn't want to in the future, that he didn't for a second realize what was going on right NOW. Any guy who could have seen the chick roll her eyes in exasperation when she realized he was never going to notice.
And that's the difference between Cam, who fails, and Chad, who succeeds: Some guys live in the moment; others live in the past. You can guess which ones are more successful.
If you really want to make it with girls, you have to start focusing on the now, not the then.
So maybe you had a tough break-up. Or a girl rejected you. Maybe you've never dated at all. It's all stuff from the past. Too many guys feel like the past will dictate the future; they fear that because they messed up before, they're going to again.
But the past has nothing to do with the future. Only the PRESENT, determines your future. The future is, in fact, right now.
Guys who do great with women-and I'm not just talking about the good-looking, tall, rich guys-don't care what happened in the past. Sometimes they've screwed up more times than you; I know a guy who was P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C with girls when he was in school. Made some MAJOR boneheaded moves. But now he gets girls all the time! That's because he, and other great players, only focuses on the present. They live in the moment, take it all in, and invite everyone else to share that special moment with them. They make a girl realize that now is the only time that matters.
So how do you go about doing that? Well, first thing I recommend is to become aware of your surroundings, and of the people you interact with. When you notice little things, hints as to what the person is like, you've got an instant "in" to the girl. For example, a friend of mine, John, noticed this girl wearing a ring with the name of his high-school on it. Most guys wouldn't give the ring a second thought (unless it were a wedding ring, perhaps), but John did. Turns out they knew some of the same people from high school. After a bit of chatting, they began dating. Now they're engaged.
Another great method is quite simple--actually LISTEN to what the girl is saying. Like Chad, you should try to take advantage of where a girl's conversation is going, and use it to your benefit. This one girl I had a fling with kept making references to how much she enjoyed photography. If I had my head stuck in the past, I could have easily overlooked how important this was to her. Instead, I told her to pose for some photos at the bar with me, and she had such a good time soaking in the present, taking and being in photos, that she couldn't help but be enamored.
Thirdly, notice girls' body language. She can be flirting with you (or Cam) shamelessly, and you may not even notice. I highly suggest you pick up "Body Language", by Allen Pease. Also check out some of my lessons on body language and approaching.
It's all about noticing little things, and acting on them. Two of the greatest skills you can have are right there for you: the ability to see, and the ability to hear. Use your eyes to scope out what's going on, and use your ears to check out what people are talking about. If you're in tune with a situation-particularly when a girl is physically showing attraction-then you're bound to have a good time.
Finally, if the past really bothers you, do something about it. Make today better than ever. Change your attitude from one of "I'm going to screw up" to "I'm gonna have fun". Keep repeating that, keep visualizing success, and it's gonna be pretty hard not to enjoy yourself. Realize that meeting girls or not, today could be your last day-so have fun.
In the words of Kim Lyons: "Yesterday is a cancelled check; Tomorrow is a promissory note; Today is the only cash you have, so spend it wisely."
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Getting An Ex Back: Control Anger and Negative Emotions by Molly Laws

After an unwanted break up it's easy to be angry with yourself, your ex and anyone that you feel contributed to the break up or interfered in your relationship. To have the best possible chance of getting your ex back you need to eliminate or at least control this anger and any other negative emotions you may be feeling such as jealousy and insecurity.
If you do not find a way to control the anger you feel there are two likely outcomes:
--Your fierce negative emotions will drive everyone you know, including your ex, further away from you.
--Your anger will twist your thinking and you will do something very stupid, such as engaging in activities that your ex could construe as harassment or even stalking.
There are ways that you can get your ex back but before you begin your campaign you need to calm yourself and get rid of all feelings of resentment, bitterness or anger. For many people this can be very difficult to accomplish. Here are a few ways to rid yourself of negative thoughts and emotions.
Refuse Admittance
Think of negative thoughts as unwanted strangers knocking on the door of your home. Simply refuse to let them in. When these thought appear shut them off and turn your mind toward other things such as your work or a hobby you enjoy. If these negative emotions manage to slip through the front door open the back door wide and usher them right out again. If this seems simple that's because it is. And it works.
Ask a Higher Power for Help
If you are a religious person then you likely already know that prayer can be very helpful when dealing with emotional situations. But even if you do not consider yourself to be religious, go ahead and try it anyway. Simply speak humbley to the spiritual force you understand and ask for help in ridding yourself of negative emotions. I don't believe prayer will ever help you to win a contest or bring you material wealth. I do believe prayer can help to control the swirl of thoughts in our minds
Meditation Can Be Calming
Like prayer meditation can work wonders in calming your mind and expelling negative emotions. And you don't have to visit a guru or take classes in order to meditate. Just sit comfortable and empty your mind of all thoughts. Thoughts will re-enter but just gently move them out again. Do this for as long as you can and several times a day. You may well be pleasantly surprised at how much better you feel.
Get a Workout
Sitting in front of the TV with a pail of ice cream may seem like the best thing to do right now, but it isn't. Force yourself up and get some exercise. Vigorous exercise. Play tennis or squash, go swimming, run, speed walk. Do anything that causes you to work up a sweat. You're mind will be more clear and you'll sleep better at night.
Once you have your thoughts under control and have banished ideas like calling him or her every hour or leaving notes on his or her car you can start formulating a how to plan that will give you the best possible chance of getting your ex back.

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To begin with, sleep is more important than eating. Overweight can have lots of causes. If you don't eat you won't put on weight and you won't get fat. Drinking more water will help flush these toxins out.
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Creating a Breakthrough: Case Example of Couple's Counseling for Communication by Tim Desmond

Communication problems are by far the most common reason that couples come in for counseling. However, learning new communication skills does not always address the true cause of their problem. For example, many people who have difficulty communicating with their partners have a much easier time communicating with other people. In cases such as these, a lack of skill is not the real problem. It is the person's inability to use the skill with his or her partner. The following example shows a couple whose main issue was resolved in just one session by discovering its hidden emotional truth.
Julie and Greg lived in Sacramento. He worked as a computer programmer and she was in graduate school to become a teacher. Julie's mother had died three months earlier and she was struggling to do well at school, hold her job and deal with some pretty complicated feelings. After being together for a year and a half, she told Greg that she wanted to take a break from the relationship while she was under so much stress. When I asked Greg how he felt about this, he answered that he was scared and did not want to break up.
I wondered what they hoped to get from therapy, and wondered if they might have two very different goals in coming to see me. It is important for me to understand this first and get a lot of clarity about what each of them are hoping for. After asking each of them, it became clear that Greg wanted the relationship to stay together. Julie said that her first priority was taking care of herself, but that if she could find a way to do that in the relationship, she would want to stay. However, she said she couldn't really imagine that happening and Greg looked pretty sad.
We all agreed that if there was a way for Julie to feel that the relationship helped her with her stress rather than adding more, that would be ideal situation that would create happiness for both of them. However, if this was not able to happen, Julie will leave for as long as it takes for her life to feel more stable.
At this point, my job had been defined. I was to understand if there was a way for Julie to feel supported enough by Greg that she would want to stay. Julie was quick to tell me that she could not imagine Greg becoming any more supportive. She said that he had listened to her feelings for countless hours and always been there to help her. Greg was in agreement with this, but said that he would be happy to try anything new that might keep them together.
I began wondering about why some people want to be with their partner when they are under a lot of stress while others want to be alone. It seemed to me that Julie felt under tremendous stress and sought to feel better by taking a break from the pressures of a relationship. However, I know that it is possible for someone to find comfort in a relationship in her situation.
I began my inquiry by asking Julie allow herself to feel all of the pressures and stresses and grief in her life. Then while she was feeling them, I asked her to imagine just for a minute knowing that she will never leave her relationship. She quickly began to feel her anxiety increase and was very uncomfortable. I asked her to stay with that feeling and to say to Greg, "I just can't stay with you..." and let the sentence finish itself without pre-thinking an ending.
She said, "I just can't stay with you because there is too much pressure." I asked to continue with the sentence and she said, "I just can't stay with you because there is too much pressure and I'll pop." I then asked her to stay in that feeling and finish the sentence, "There is too much pressure because..." She immediate exclaimed "Because I can't be myself."
I now had the beginning of the story. If Julie feels that she can't be herself around Greg, it makes sense why that would add pressure and stress to her life to be with him. What I still did not understand was why she felt this way, and luckily there was still about 20 minutes to go in the session.
In couples counseling, it is usually the case that both partners have a hand in creating their dynamics. I decided at this point to focus on Greg in order to learn why Julie might not feel comfortable being herself. I asked Greg to imagine a recent time when Julie felt particularly distressed. Once he had this in mind, I asked him just to keep visualizing this image of her feeling distressed and not to do anything to change it. He told me that this was hard for him and it gave him a sinking feeling in his chest. I asked him to stay with that feeling and try saying to Julie, "If I don't try to change you." and let the sentence finish itself. He said that he didn't feel like he was trying to change her, so we changed his sentence to say, "If I just allow you to feel this way and do nothing, then..." He took a few deep breaths and said, "If I just let you feel this way, you will never get better and you will be depressed forever."
I now felt like I might have a pretty good sense of what was going on, so I asked him to make that a little more explicit. I asked him to try out saying to Julie, "I just can't let you be sad or fried all the time or you will never get better." He said that it felt true to say it. I then asked him to go even further and try saying, "Even if it makes you feel pressured to change, I just can't let you be sad or fried all the time or you will never get better." Neither of them had had any idea that this was true prior to our session. Greg quickly recognized how significant this was. He said, "Wow. If I can't stand to just let you feel sad and stressed out, then it makes sense why you don't feel like you can be yourself around me."
Julie started to tear up, and nodded her head. They were both pretty shocked and disoriented as we unpacked what we had discovered and I summarized it on a notecard for them to read each day. I asked them to correct me and make sure that the words we chose were complete true. We ended up settling on: "Greg is afraid that if he lets Julie be sad and fried all the time, she will never get better. But this makes Julie feel like she can't be herself around Greg, which makes her feel even worse." I asked them just to recognize that this was true and not to try to change it immediately.
In a follow up call five months later, Greg told me that he had realized how much pressure he had been putting on Julie to get better and that he had been able to start feeling more comfortable when she felt distressed. He said that they were still together, and that while Julie would still get overwhelmed by work and school and grief over her mother every so often, she no longer would push him away at those times. He said the relationship was more secure than it ever had been and felt that our session had been largely responsible for the change.

The Guidance of the Counselling in Melbourne Service by eelii disoza

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Chances Of Getting Back With Ex - Does This Dominate Your Thoughts? by Chelsey Sparks

It is not uncommon for those suffering a relationship breakup to frequently find their thoughts dominated with... "What are my chances of getting back with ex?" There is no doubt; a relationship breakup can leave you feeling dismal and desperate. It is perhaps one of the most crushing events that we will ever experience.

Breakup pain can severely impact our overall state of well-being. Our minds are swamped with thoughts of our ex. Many times, we soon discover the burning desire of getting ex back. This burning need tends to feed our breakup pain. The day-to-day routine of life can suddenly overpower us.
There are many elements that make up a relationship. Dedication and time along with bonding and love are key factors in a relationship. These are prime reasons why a relationship cannot be easily pushed aside in our thoughts. These reasons often prime our thoughts with the burning question... What are my chances of getting back with ex?
When it comes to getting an ex back, we often find ourselves totally uniformed on what to do. It is not something that we traditionally learn in school or at home. Sometimes we witness a relationship breakup our friends suffered through, but derived little knowledge or understanding when it came to their relationship. Thus, we find ourselves without the necessary knowledge required in handling the dynamics of fixing a broken relationship.
If you are in the midst of a relationship breakup, finding competent relationship breakup advice is critical to help you achieve positive results to the question... What are my chances of getting back with ex? Perhaps one of the most critical aspects in fixing a broken relationship is not only knowing what you should say, but also knowing when you should say it.
Your chances of getting back with ex are much greater if you are following prudent and tested relationship breakup advice. Following the well-intentional counsel and opinions of friends and family members can often cause further harm to a broken relationship.
When overcoming a relationship breakup, desperate and painful emotions frequently prevent us from making prudent decisions on our own. The importance of following prudent, tested relationship breakup advice with a well-constructed plan is paramount to achieve the winning result of getting back with ex.

What Fairy Tales Don't Tell You: The Truth About Men and Women by Demetra Coulter

As children, most of us grew up listening to fairy tales with morals and lessons attached to them. For the most part, the make believe stories involve a prince, princess, villain, hero, plot, climax and a happy ending. However, something else is missing.
Night after night stories about beautiful damsels in distress being rescued by handsome knights in shining armor are being told to children right before they fall asleep. These fairy tales reassure children that everything is going to be alright, after a pumpkin turns into a Mercedes that takes them to a palace with maids and butlers that use to be house rats. Maybe I have my fairy tale facts mixed up, but that's the story I'm sticking to.
Let's take a look at how "Prince Charming" is typically portrayed. He is described as being handsome, strong and he has some sort of a savior complex. Oh yeah, he usually rides a white horse too.
On the surface, those attributes sound like a guy every woman wants to marry or at least date. However, there's so much more to Prince Charming. How many of you have ever told your daughters that along with being cute, he needs to have a job? Like my father always told me, "There's no romance without the finance!"
Out of curiosity, during story time, have you ever mentioned that he should be faithful, respectful, a critical thinker, honest, loving, a good husband and a good father along with anything else that makes him well rounded? I know some of you are probably thinking, "Is she serious?" Yes, I'm dead serious because unfortunately, some women grow up with delusions of grandeur while expecting their mates to be just like the Prince Charming they've heard so much about as a child. Oh that is such a rude awakening.
Cinderella and her girlfriends need a description update too. When the princesses are introduced in the fairy tales, they are depicted as helpless and beautiful victims. Unless a fairy godmother or a talking teapot gives them a pep talk, they are clueless as to how they are going to fix their dilemmas.
Sure, being with a physically attractive woman is probably the desire of most men, but what about her non visible assets? Parents, do your sons know that the princess should know how to cook, do laundry and I'm just kidding! I was joking people!
But seriously... She should be loving, kind, faithful, respectful, a critical thinker, a good wife, a good mother and yes, she should be able to help out financially too, among other things. If boys are not told these things, some of them end up with women who are just pretty.
So what am I saying? When we recite fairy tales to children, especially the ones that involve relationships between princes and princesses, we should tell them the truth about men and women. They should know that their potential mate needs to be more than just a facade. We should make sure they know that once Prince Charming and his princess rides off into the sunset, it's going to take more than a kiss and a glass slipper to help them live happily ever after. Now when it comes to telling them the story about the birds and the bees, you're on your own with that one. Good luck!
 

Relationship- breaking up guidance by Francis Hosein

Is their an easy way to break up, and if yes, how to do it?
The answer is yes and no, read on to find the truth and nothing but the truth.
It all depends on you and the relationship you created with the other person.
What does this mean?
It means that, when you first started dating did you build a relationship on friendship or your mind was on going to bed with the person?
This plays a part on how you break up, for if you got involve for sex it will be difficult and the person will not be willing to talk or understand what the reasons why you are both breaking up.
When I said yes and no to the question about breaking up, it mean that breaking up will hurt because if you did build a relationship of friendship, you will also be losing a friend
that you trusted, that you love and respected.
It is possible to rekindle a relationship after you break up if the friendship was strong and it would ask both of you a period of separation so grieving can take place.
What do you say?
In breaking up, you would need to show moments, dates, situation what was happening that did not work out especially if the person is more logical, they need a hands on approach, they need proof.
For the person that is more feeling or sensitive, talking to them about realizing that you come to a place in your relationship that you feel something had to change because the love was no longer flowing and that you realize that staying in a relationship with your partner was doing both of you a disservice because you realize that you both deserve to be happy and that it hurts you just as much because you thought it would last.

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Helpful Online Dating Advice For Christians by Terry Edwards

As a Christian, we may have different opinions on dating compared to those that are non-Christians. When you are still new in the online dating scene and you feel like you have no idea on how you can start dating, then it may be a good idea to read Christian dating advice articles coming from people who have more experience that you do.
Below are some helpful online dating tips coming from Christians who have their own experiences about Christian dating.
· Be truthful in your profile. After all, you want other people to see who you are through this profile. If you say that you are an Olympic athlete just because you know that can easily attract other people to you, then you are not attracting people because you are you, but you are attracting them to a fake you. Be honest to your brothers and sisters in Christ.
· You should not post "provocative" pictures in your profile. Even though you joined a very good Christian website, there are still people who may have the wrong impression on you based on that provocative picture and may end up wanting to meet up with you for all the wrong reasons. Remember, in dating your fellow church goers, you have to respect each other and prancing your body in a rather hormonally "stimulating" way is not a great way to win the respect of your brethren.
· Speaking of meeting up, there is now what some secular internet dating sites call "sexual eyeball" or SEB for short. Do not, in any way, participate in such rendezvous.
· Also, about the same topic of meeting each other up, if the person you want to meet has already said that they are not yet comfortable to meet you personally, do not persist. Respect his or her decision and do not push it. This will only lead you to most likely losing an online friend.
· Have the courtesy to reply to each and every one that tries to contact you. It's the right thing to do. Even if, after reading his or her profile, you find out that you are not interested at him or her, then be courageous enough to say that you appreciate his or her interest but you feel that you may not be the person he or she is looking for. This way, you can avoid having someone message you multiple times by telling him or her on the onset that you are not interested, in a very polite and courteous way of course.
· If you are at the other end of this "courteous" let down, then accept his or her decision and do not take it against this person. Do not "flame" or send him or her hateful messages. There are a huge sea of Christian singles out there so let go and move on.
And probably the best Christian dating advice will be; treat whomever that you talk to on these online dating sites as brothers and sisters in Christ. Be polite, respectful, honest and pleasant just for beginners.

WOMENS TOP 5 SEX TIPS To Arouse Your Husband in Bed! by Big Mama

HOW TO REKINDLE YOUR SEX LIFE & MARRIAGE.
"As a sex therapist, I'd say that the most common problem married couples bring to me is the lack of passion in their relationship," says popular relationship expert Kathleen Falken.
"And, after a few questions, the most common problem is that modern life's stresses and obligations are usually the culprit. The love and common values that first attracted them are still there. It's just a problem of being a bit more aggressive in expressing their sexual wants and needs. Especially in the woman.
"In fact, with older couples, it's the men who often express that they'd love their women to be a bit more expressive of their sexuality!"
Sexual issues can have a major impact on couples who are in a relationship. Sexual issues, for example, can lead to depression, increased stress or feelings of abandonment. If not treated soon, it can also lead to a divorce or break-up.
In order to have a healthy relationship, it's critical that the couples in a marriage or long-time relationship are able to overcome their sexual issues.
Some therapists believe that "Scheduling times to have sex has proven to be very helpful. The time does not have to be at night, when the couple is tired.
"It can be during your younger child's afternoon nap or before work. It can be every other Friday night when the kids are at a sleepover - whatever it is, make it a plan. Some discourage against marking sex down on the calendar, while others believe it increases the anticipation, which is healthy for a relationship."
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In iVillage's National Married Sex survey, 75% of wives said a healthy sex life was important to them. "This research sets the record straight - married women definitely value good sex in their relationships," explained Liz Zack, editorial director of Love and Sex at iVillage.
"But despite the fact that most married women value sex, the survey also found that two thirds would rather do something else other than get it on, such as go to the spa, watch a movie, use FaceboOK or chat with friends.
"I understand the choices these wives are making. Through twenty-four years of marriage, staying intimately connected with my husband helped us weather some severe storms that are part of every long-term relationship. Working full time, raising kids, and juggling all the daily tasks of family, it is easy to morph into becoming logistical strategists. I, too, found myself saying 'not tonight, honey' way too often!"
Sexologist Dr. Kat Van Kirk explains that couples "tend to find a lot more negotiable in their sex lives than they realized when they start to talk about it with their partners honestly.
"Plan a special night together and bring up the issue over a romantic dinner. Talk about what you respond to sexually. If you find it difficult to come up with good ideas, watch some erotic videos with varying themes and see what your body (and your mind) responds to. This can be a great way for couples to find things that turn them both on."
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1. SEXT HIM. Sexting is hot. Send him a hot text message at work, promising him a night like he's never had. Take a Naked Selfie and send it to him on his smartphone, reminding him what he's been missing.
2. ADULT MOVIE NIGHT. Get a steamy adult movie. Either a Hollywood release with R rating for nudity - or an outright XXX Adult film. Today, some of the best naughty movies are being produced by women, who treat women more realistically and with less exploitation than the more classic porn.
3. SEX INSTRUCTION VIDEO. Many women don't know just how fascinated men are by the Female Orgasm - and learning how give the Love of Their Lives intense pleasure. There are a number of very exciting Sex Instruction Videos available online that focus on the Female Orgasm. Secretly download one on his home computer, put a desktop icon or app to it on his screen - and let him discover it!
4. SEXY LINGERIE. OK, that first night, when you wore that red sexy lingerie, he was only interested in getting you naked. The red thing was just pretty wrapping on the Gift: you. But now, you'd be surprised at how that same sheer lingerie would make him gasp.
5. "DO YOU STILL MASTURBATE?" For most of us, that question still floors us. Most men and women never discuss self pleasure, even otherwise intimate couples. In fact, some women don't even masturbate at all. When you've both settled in bed for another quiet night, throw THAT question at him. It's the Bomb In The Bed question. Don't let him squirm out of it. Talk about it. How did he first learn? Your own history. After a while, offer to show him how you do it - if he will show you how he does it, after. Actually, you may both learn things you didn't know about each other's sexuality - like preferred rhythm, speed and pressure. It's a good way to begin teaching him how to perform cunnilingus on you...
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What If You Are Scared That He Wants to Leave You? by Alexandra Scott

Are you getting the impression that your boyfriend might not be that happy with the relationship? Are you wondering about whether or not he might want to leave you? Worrying about things like this can lead to a lot of stress and doubt and confusion. Because you are scared that he wants to leave you, it can make you feel like this is something that you have to figure out as soon as possible. You don't want to end up feeling like you were taken by surprise. You want to be able to work this out as much as you can.
Here is some advice that might help you out if you are scared that your boyfriend wants to leave you:
1. Don't jump to any conclusions just yet.
You don't want to jump to the wrong conclusion. You don't want to conclude that he definitely wants to leave unless you really have a lot of evidence that he does feel that way. There might be another explanation for why you are getting that impression and finding out what that might be is really important.
2. Try to get him to talk more openly with you.
One of the reasons why you might have these kinds of suspicions is because there just isn't enough open communication between you and the guy you are dating. You need to have that open communication and for that reason, you might want to try to get him to talk more openly with you. If he does open up, you may find that he doesn't want to leave, that there is something else that is going on that the two of you can work out together.
3. Think about what you really want with him.
One of the things that you might also want to think about is what you really want with your boyfriend. Do you want him to stay with you? If so, then you know that you are going to have to try to do what you can to change his mind. However, you might also find that one of the reasons why you think he wants to leave is because a part of you is done with the relationship. Things can be funny like that, where you suspect the other person wants to end the relationship because deep down, that is what you really want to do.
It can be scary to wonder about whether or not your boyfriend wants to leave you. It can make you feel all sorts of things, things that conflict with one another. However, you want to be really careful that you do not jump to any conclusions just yet. Because there are often times when a guy can give you that impression, but that is not what he really wants to do.

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You Can Look Fine Using A Web Cam - Try These Handy Tips by Douglass Kormann

Place the web camera at eye level to stop you peering downwards at the web camera. Why? To erase the double chin - that's why.
Do it yourself now. Pretend there is webcam on the floor and lower you head and look at it. Now feel under your chin. For some of us, not all, we have a small gathering of unwanted skin that has decided to present itself under the ole chin. If the camera is placed eye level or higher we are holding our heads higher to solve the double chin.
Light it up.
Do not align the light above you or behind. The light should appear from in front of you (behind the cam) or from the left or right, but not from behind. Most modern web cameras have been constructed with a mini light that lights up when your webcam is triggered - it is hardly enough. Put a lamp on a desk in front of you so that it shines on your face. Try different ways of lighting yourself. Natural light from a window is good if you are casting in the day hours and a normal desk lamp lamp in the evening will do just fine.
Um, where are you?
If you are going to video chat from your room, give it a tidy. If you going to cast from any room in your house be assured that others will form an opinion on you and your surroundings. If you are in a room with beer bottles, ash trays and pornographic film covers, it will give it away. Clean up, or video chat from a different room that you would find acceptable for others to broadcast from.
Do not be the creepy dude.
Nobody likes the creepy guy in a dark room on webcam. It creates a preconception of nasty images. Are they nasties in the night, murderers or cam bandits. Go on, sit in the dark and you can be the creepy guy.
Style your hair people.
When we head out into town to impress others most of us will style the do and dress up. What is so different about video chatting? Your first impression counts and if you are meeting somebody you are interested in - be interesting to them. Try a little.
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Nobody can tell you what to say when you do turn the webcam on. Some good advice is listen, smile and be friendly. What you would expect.
Be on your most appropriate behaviour. Treat anybody on cam how you would like to be treated - it is not hard or difficult to be nice and broadcast with respect.

Whenever to Wear Indian Dresses - Indian Dresses Online Shopping Nu by Kasey Indeck

Indian apparel consists of vast range clothing for both women and men. For most of us, Indian style wear would mean classic clothing and while that's genuine to a big extent, Indian clothing is certainly not really tied to being just that. Salwar kameez, sarees, lehengas and all of these Indian clothes for females have modified to changing tendencies of the fashion globe. No longer is actually Indian clothing used to be used only for pujas or perhaps for weddings. The style, the design, everything has advanced to increase the wearability of Indian ethnic wear. From office to a everyday dinner to a wedding party, such clothing is usually worn to a wide range of occasions.
The perfect version of the well-known Salwar Kameez and Kurtis, are Indian Dresses. These Indian dresses blend Indo-western trends and also generate modern ethnic clothing. Nonetheless, something to make note of is usually that Indian dresses have been created to add that contemporary touch ethnic fashion or perhaps vice versa. They're definitely not to be baffled with conventional Indian wear.
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If the Indo-Western trend confuses a person and also you don't know whenever to use Indian dresses, and then let us inform you that it's its not all that complicated at all. What is excellent about this enjoyable and also trendy garment is that it brings out the very best of each worlds! Standard motifs and elegant designs, these make ethnic dresses suited to a whole lot many more occasions than the much more conference Indian put on like sarees, salwar kameez and the likes. So, while there are absolutely no rules or rules, continue reading to find out when and also how you can don this specific stylish piece of clothing.
You can put on Indian dresses -
· To a party with close friends
· With leggings or perhaps jeans so that you can wear it to operate
· Depending on the type of the dress, you can wear it for any formal supper
· To the next Sunday brunch with your family
· With a long gypsy skirt to bring out a Bohemian look
The particular list can go on! The particular gist is which Indian dresses tend to be basically versatile. So, whenever you buy yourself an Indian clothes on the internet, let your creativity run outrageous with these gorgeously fashionable dresses!

Relationships: Why Do Some People Need Others To Tell Them What To Do? by Oliver J R Cooper

Although each and every one of us is physically separate and therefore has our own needs and wants, it doesn’t mean that one is always aware of what these are. So instead of one looking within for guidance and a sense of purpose, they can end up looking to other people.
This is what will be normal and what will feel comfortable to them. It doesn’t have to be something that takes place consciously either; with one just doing this unconsciously. What one should or shouldn’t be doing is then largely defined by the views and expectations of others.
Dependent
One is then more or less completely dependent on other people, when it comes to what they do with their life. And while being open to feedback from others from time to time is healthy and something that will enhance one’s life, there has to be a limit.
Even though other people can have ideas and advice when it comes to what one can do with their life, it is impossible for them to know everything. If human beings were not separate and all had one brain, then it would be different.
Relationships
When it comes to the people that one is closest to, such as friends, family, lovers or their partner for instance, there is going to be the chance that their guidance will be more relevant. These people will have a greater understanding than ‘strangers’, so it is to be expected that they will have a certain level of insight into what ones needs and wants are.
But no matter how close one is to someone and how long they have known each other for, they are still separate. And while being close to someone can allow them to have greater insight into what their needs and wants are, this doesn’t mean that they will know everything.
Change
Just because one has had the need to do something for many years and ever since someone has known them, it doesn’t mean that they will always be this way. Human beings are changeable and this means that nothing set in stone.
It could be said that people are generally consistent in what they do, and yet, there is always the chance that they will change. So to think that anyone other than the person involved can know what is best is nothing more than an illusion.
Two Sides
On one side can be the tendency for one to look towards others, and on the other side can be the tendency of the people one is around to tell them what they should be doing with their life.
To look towards others all the time for guidance is unlikely to make one feel empowered and in control of their life. And to be around people that have always got something to say, in regards to what one should be doing, it’s not going to make one feel empowered or in control either.
The Problem
Now, if one is unaware of how they look towards others, they could end up placing their attention on how people tell them what to do all the time. Other people are then seen as the problem and one could end up feeling like a victim.
However, if one didn’t look outside as much for guidance and give off the impression that they need others to tell them what to do; they would be less likely to attract people who behave in these ways.
The Illusion
What creates the illusion that the problem is ‘out there’, is when one is unaware of how this is what feels comfortable at a deeper level. Consciously the mind may resist what is happening, but the body feels comfortable with this dynamic.
So, as one is the only person who can know what their wants and needs are, and what their purpose is, it can be hard to comprehend why they would feel comfortable looking to others.
A Reason
On the surface this might not make any sense, but if one was to dig a little deeper, they would soon find that there is a good reason for it. And the reason one is like this, is probably due to what their childhood was like.
Childhood
Whether ones needs and wants were met as a child will depend on how aware their caregivers were. It is through their acknowledgement of them, that one will become aware of them themselves.
Ideally, one would have had a caregiver that was attuned to their wants and needs and therefore responded to them. Through this mirroring, not only would they have formed a connection to them, they would also have felt safe having them.
However, through one having a caregiver that was not aware of what ones needs and wants were, it would have made it difficult for them to form a relationship with them. Instead, they would have ended up paying attention to what their caregiver’s needs and wants were.
Consequences
This wouldn’t have been a choice; it would have been a matter of survival. These experiences conditioned one to lose touch with their inner world and to look towards others for guidance.
If one is unaware of what they want and need, this is to be expected. And as one was not allowed to form a relationship with their needs and wants, it is not much of a surprise that they trust other people’s judgement more than they trust their own.
Awareness
Ones ego mind will have formed certain associations when it comes to them following their own needs and wants. This could be that one would be rejected, abandoned and that they would die. These trapped feelings will need to be faced and released.
It will also be important for one to gradually build up their trust when it comes to listening to what they need and want. The assistance of a therapist, healer or a coach can also help with this process.

HOT RELATIONSHIP ADVICE: From Weddings to Mattresses - Best Advice to Sizzle Your Spring by Big Mama

"IT'S TRUE ABOUT SPRING AND LOVE. BUT IT'S WOMEN WHO YEARN THE MOST FOR LOVE IN SPRING," says dating guru Kate Falken.
Over the years, we've presented romantic advice from some of America's Top relationship Experts. They've helped singles find love. And they've helped couples add fire to their lovelife.
What's up this Spring?
So far, 2014 is seeing an increase in marriage proposals.
Wedding preparation is back on the front burner.
Tracey Mann, founder of Tracey’s Cakes (traceyscakes.co.uk), says, "Having worked in the wedding industry for over twenty years, I get a real sense of what's coming up and this year as well as incredible flavours, it’s all about delicate designs and colourful cakes."
Tracey's top three wedding cake trends for 2014 are:

1. Edible Lace - Lace is usually in abundance at weddings, from the wedding dress fabric to swathes of lacy tablecloths, and now it is making an appearance on wedding cakes.
Classic vintage lace detailing in edible paper and icing is set to be a key feature of wedding cakes of this year.
White and ivory lace overlaid onto the same coloured cake is perfect for creating a timeless, elegant centrepiece.
Or for a vintage or contemporary twist, try scalloped white lace on a coloured cake that matches your day’s colour scheme.
2. Coloured Wedding Cakes - Many couples choose an accent colour for their wedding and this year wedding cakes are getting the colour treatment too.
Rather than traditional tiers of white and ivory, brides are increasingly opting for cakes in block colours - from soft shades of pink and peach, to bold hues of blue and grey.
If you want your cake to make a colour statement, it's a good to have a clear idea of your colour scheme and venue before consulting your cake designer. This will help them create a shade and design that fits perfectly.
3. Handmade Sugar Flowers - Fresh flowers are taking a back seat this year in favour of handcrafted and painted sugar flowers.
A slightly more expensive option than real flowers, sugar flowers have the advantage of looking like the real thing, always being in season and lasting throughout the day.

Roses and peonies make timeless wedding cake toppers or pick a selection of flowers you have chosen for your bouquet.
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"Spring is here, but for many in long-term relationships the season might not coincide anymore with springs squeaking and popping in mattresses - you know, the really good kinds of squeaks and pops."
Dr. Kat Van Kirk, sexologist and marriage therapist, offers unique ways to get those springs making their "happy noises" again.
Her 4 Sizzling Suggestions for Mattress Music:
1. If your partner is taking a shower, offer to hop in and wash his or her back. Get a bottle of the yummiest smelling body wash you can find and surprise him/her with it as you lather up.
2. Offer your lover a foot rub before they get out of bed in the morning or right before they fall asleep. It might not lead to a romp right then, but it sure sends a message of love.
3. Allow the "Honey I'm off to work and I'll see you this afternoon kiss" to linger. Throw some tongue into it, cup an ass cheek or fondle a breast under the shirt and over the bra (or even just over the shirt). If the kids are having breakfast, excuse yourself to go out to get the morning paper together for a little grope. So what if the neighbors stare?
4. While running errands together, pull off the road for a few minutes of fondling. You’re adults. As long as you aren’t blocking traffic the police probably won’t give you a second glance.
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Source: Dr. Kat received her doctorate in Human Sexuality/Clinical Sexology from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. She runs the website: drkat.com and is the resident expert for Adam and Eve. She also is an associate professor at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco and an adjunct professor at Akamai University in Hilo, Hawaii.
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Relationships: Can Environmental Factors Stop Someone From Moving On From A Breakup? by Oliver J R Cooper

When a relationships ends, there is the chance that it will lead to one experiencing a lot of emotional pain. There is also the chance that one will be quiet happy with what has happened and although there may be a mild sense of loss for example, they will soon settle down and be on their way.
It will depend on numerous factors as to how one feels when they experience the end of a relationship. Just because their relationship has finished, it doesn’t mean that it hadn’t finished a long time ago.
Different Reasons
One could have physically been with the other person, but mentally and emotionally checked out for instance. Perhaps it had come to its natural end and one knew that it would end soon.
There is also the chance that the relationship they were in was nothing more than a rebound. And as they hadn’t let go of their previous relationship/s, they were unable to fully embrace the other person. So whether they are in this person life is then irrelevant, as they are still caught up in the past.
The Past
When the emotional pain of one’s past has not been processed, it can reappear when one experiences conflict in a relationship, and when one comes to an end. This emotional pain would have been trapped in one’s body and then all it takes to come to the surface is an internal or external trigger.
This could pain could be from previous relationships, the loss of a loved one or a pet and/or their childhood. Each of these represents a time that has passed; what has remained is the pain that wasn’t processed
Associations
The ego mind works by association and this means that when something happens in the present, it will search ones history to find other occurrences that are similar. So one will then be reminded of the times that they experienced any kind of loss in their life.
This whole process can happen unconsciously, but while one might not be aware of the memories that have been located, they will be aware of the feelings, thoughts and sensations that these memories trigger. However, if the emotional charge was no longer in these memories, one wouldn’t experience the same amount of pain.
If the pain was processed, the mind could associate what was happening now to past experiences and very little would happen. It would just be a memory and there would be nothing to pull one in.
Loss
So this all comes down to loss and while meeting someone and gradually getting close to them is pleasurable and fulfilling, what usually has a bigger impact on one’s life is when a relationship ends. There are at least two reasons for why this is; one goes back many, many years ago and the other goes back to ones childhood.
During the time when humans were living in caves, it was important that they had enough food. It wasn’t important that they had more than they needed; having enough was all that mattered. If they lost what they needed, it could have resulted in death.
And during ones childhood, being abandoned or left alone at a certain age would feel like death. At this age, one wouldn’t have had the ability to regulate their emotional experience or to survive by themselves. Loss would have been over overwhelming and felt like the end of the world.
External Factors
So this relates to ones inner experience and what can be taking place within. But while a breakup can be painful due to ones history and what loss means to the ego mind, there are also external factors involved.
Just as the mind will look for situations in ones past that match up with their current loss, it will also have formed associations around everything in their environment. And a lot of these associations are going to relate to the experiences one had with the person they were in a relationship with.
Meaning
Before one was in a relationship with the other person, ones environment would have had different meanings. But through being around them, new meanings would have been created. This can include: where ones lives; where they used to go together; the people they used to spend time with and different objects.
And all the time one spends their time in these places, around these people or has these objects around them, they will be reminded of the other person. And this can make it harder for one to take their mind off the other person, let alone to move on.
Moving On
So in order to move on from a breakup, one could let go of some of the external factors that are keeping their mind focused on the other person. In some cases, it might be necessary for one to change where they live in order move on. And other times, just taking a break from where they live for a few days, weeks or every now and then might be enough.
The places that one used to visit with the other person might be best avoided for a while; until their mind has settled down. One might not want to see certain people for a while and this is understandable. There could also be an item of clothing or a certain price of jewellery that will one need to be let go off or put to one side for a while.
Awareness
These are just a few ideas of what can keep one’s mind focused on another person when a breakup has taken place. The best approach will be for one to think about what it is in their environment that reminds them of the other person. And based on this observation, one can decide what the best course of action is.
Reaching out for support during this time will also be important. This could be through having a friend to talk to or seeking the assistance of a therapist, healer or a coach for instance.

Why Relationships Today Are Different Than Ever Before by Dan Terry

We are a most interesting and curious species, In spite of being the most advanced biological marvel on the planet we are yet, merely, a work in progress. We are blessed with consciousness, language, the most advanced brains among and above millions of other species, yet we're still evolving.
In spite of our evolved consciousness and miraculous brains, we're still very much, pretty primitive creatures, operating more than we realize by unconscious biological processes and instinct. We are merely chrysalises, encased in cocoons of limited self-consciousness, yet to emerge at our full potential, spread our wings and fly.
As much as we know and can each know individually, none of us has perfect knowledge of anything. Most know a microscopic bit of all that is collectively known regardless of how much intelligence or knowledge we attempt throughout our lifetimes to acquire or master.
What we don't know about 'stuff', in even the greatest minds and thinkers on the planet since the dawn of time, is millions of times more vast than all we do know. And that is true about what we know and don't know about our own selves.
What we don't know about ourselves, our bodies, our minds and the way it all works in our interactions with others like ourselves, wandering around on the planet we share we've named earth, is infinitely greater than what we do know.
Yet with our vast self-ignorance we are somehow blessed with a self-consciousness that is constantly learning and trying to figure it all out. More important yet is the totally unconscious "self-consciousness" that is constantly going on under the surface taking care of the millions of activities of biological life, like breathing, blood circulation, brain and organ functions, and functioning of reproduction and autoimmune systems. So we can survive. So we can propagate and expand and insure the survival of the species.
All the other stuff we learn from the time we're born until we leave these earthy fleshy human suits and melt back into whatever cosmic energy form in which we may or may not exist in outside of "life as we know it" is merely subsets of those two prime objectives that we all share as being a member of the homo sapiens tribe. Jobs, careers, education, commerce, invention, religion, dating, whatever and all of it, are simply learned adaptations to allow us to either 1) survive personally, socially, professionally or 2) expand the species.
Surviving personally in a world populated with a few billion others like ourselves demands we learn how to get along or avoid those situations and circumstances that put our survival at risk, so we gather in groups and share information and teach each other 'stuff' that we learned from others that came before that helps us muddle along on the path of life.
For millions of years those of us who were most evolved and adaptable to the ever-changing dynamics of the natural (and later manmade) worlds and others in it were able to pass on their knowledge of both survival and relationships to another generation. And for all that time being relatively ignorant about a lot of stuff (including ourselves and how our brains and bodies work to let us do all that stuff about surviving and making babies) was apparently, with 7 billion people on the planet pretty effective. We survived and propagated quite well and evolved and adapted (or our line died out and we didn't make it into the billions that did).
Yet today, we're at a critical time unlike any that came before since the first hominids swaggered across a grassy meadow, found a member of the opposite sex, got to 'know' each other in the Biblical sense, and raised another generation.
Until now we were all pretty equally ignorant about the inner workings that made all that possible, and we didn't need to know that. Then. So what's different?
An explosion of knowledge that was never known before by anyone is what's different now. More scientific and medical and psychological knowledge has been learned in the last 100 years or so than in all of prior human history.
With the advent of the woman's movement and greater educational, career and even physiological opportunities where our very biology itself can be manipulated and altered with advances in scientific knowledge, suddenly the entire long evolved human adaptations that involve human sexual activity are out of sync.
On the one hand, our DNA and biological programs are still operating as they have for thousands of years. Our drives, motivations and desires to come together with others and create families are unchanged. But in today's society, women now have the choice to be freed from the biological imperative in several different ways simultaneously. And that, only in the last few generations.
Suddenly, if women want children but don't like the choices of men that are in her 'world', she can buy with her newly acquired career income and independence, sperm from a bottle with a DNA profile of her choosing. Or, as many are doing, choosing one mate for genetics and another for company and companionship, increasingly, the later is of the same gender.
Or they can choose to forgo the male all together after satisfying the genetic program to bring children into the world, which the divorce rate suggests many are choosing single parenthood, now freed from financial & security dependence on a man. Or they can choose to not have children at all by taking pills or abortions or chemicals that neutralize the biological imperative in operation in ever female since "Lucy".
The bottom line is simple. Women now have choices they never did before. The implications for men are profound.
From the Book "A Man's Guide to Maker Her Feel Butterflies: Mastering the Chemistry of Love, Sex & Attraction" By David Mandios and Dan Terry available on Amazon.

Benefits of Melbourne Counselling Service by eelii disoza

A Melbourne Counselling Service session is a great way to learn more about yourself and see what is keeping you from achieving your goals. There are a lot of things that you can take away from just one session with a good therapist, and if you jump into the experience with an open mind it is likely that you will start to make big changes in your life right away. The main purpose of these counselling is to make healthy relationship of marriages. With this objective, marriage counselling can help couples at all stages of marital life, as well as a pre-marriage or post marriage is simply not effective A good counselor is the one who doesn’t blame any of the partners, doesn’t take sides, is not judgmental and doesn’t discriminate between the partners. Only then, a couple can trust a counselor and seek his advice. Relationship counselling has become very common into various faculties like marriage and divorce counselling, mental disorder, lack of interest and confidence, management of stress on mind, drug addiction as well as talking disorders counselling. Generally most of these problems started during childhood, however increase with several kinds of physical evidences in adult period. The power of good counselling is subtle at first, but there are so many people who have gone on to find more purpose in their lives and develop a better understanding of how to relate to others through good counselling. You could end up with the same benefits, so it would make sense to try out one or more counselling sessions to see if you like them. For any kind of relationship, communication is the key. The first thing that every counselor does is to teach the couple how to communicate to each other respectfully. A good communication helps in building a strong foundation of any kind of relationship and helps through the difficult times. The most common causes for people to meet marriage counsellors are to find a solution of their marital conflict. Marriage counseling or counselling service mainly helps couples identify the problem area in their marital relation and seeing them with different approaches. Troubleshooting-marital this is the service most common, marriage counsellor’s offer. Customers should be the concern in relations director and consultants to help a couple to do with it. Presentation of the problems can be anything, and may vary depending on the severity and intensity. Two people can have the equal problem, and then they have a program tailored to suit the individual. So finding the right advisor for specific solver is also vital to the cause for which that a person rents a Melbourne counsellor. Service like this is offered by qualified as well as experienced persons in the same field. These persons are excellent in managing any circumstances that are being suffered by the patients.

Benefits of Melbourne Counselling Service by eelii disoza

A Melbourne Counselling Service session is a great way to learn more about yourself and see what is keeping you from achieving your goals. There are a lot of things that you can take away from just one session with a good therapist, and if you jump into the experience with an open mind it is likely that you will start to make big changes in your life right away. The main purpose of these counselling is to make healthy relationship of marriages. With this objective, marriage counselling can help couples at all stages of marital life, as well as a pre-marriage or post marriage is simply not effective A good counselor is the one who doesn’t blame any of the partners, doesn’t take sides, is not judgmental and doesn’t discriminate between the partners. Only then, a couple can trust a counselor and seek his advice. Relationship counselling has become very common into various faculties like marriage and divorce counselling, mental disorder, lack of interest and confidence, management of stress on mind, drug addiction as well as talking disorders counselling. Generally most of these problems started during childhood, however increase with several kinds of physical evidences in adult period. The power of good counselling is subtle at first, but there are so many people who have gone on to find more purpose in their lives and develop a better understanding of how to relate to others through good counselling. You could end up with the same benefits, so it would make sense to try out one or more counselling sessions to see if you like them. For any kind of relationship, communication is the key. The first thing that every counselor does is to teach the couple how to communicate to each other respectfully. A good communication helps in building a strong foundation of any kind of relationship and helps through the difficult times. The most common causes for people to meet marriage counsellors are to find a solution of their marital conflict. Marriage counseling or counselling service mainly helps couples identify the problem area in their marital relation and seeing them with different approaches. Troubleshooting-marital this is the service most common, marriage counsellor’s offer. Customers should be the concern in relations director and consultants to help a couple to do with it. Presentation of the problems can be anything, and may vary depending on the severity and intensity. Two people can have the equal problem, and then they have a program tailored to suit the individual. So finding the right advisor for specific solver is also vital to the cause for which that a person rents a Melbourne counsellor. Service like this is offered by qualified as well as experienced persons in the same field. These persons are excellent in managing any circumstances that are being suffered by the patients.

Relationships: Can Environmental Factors Stop Someone From Moving On From A Breakup? by Oliver J R Cooper

When a relationships ends, there is the chance that it will lead to one experiencing a lot of emotional pain. There is also the chance that one will be quiet happy with what has happened and although there may be a mild sense of loss for example, they will soon settle down and be on their way.
It will depend on numerous factors as to how one feels when they experience the end of a relationship. Just because their relationship has finished, it doesn’t mean that it hadn’t finished a long time ago.
Different Reasons
One could have physically been with the other person, but mentally and emotionally checked out for instance. Perhaps it had come to its natural end and one knew that it would end soon.
There is also the chance that the relationship they were in was nothing more than a rebound. And as they hadn’t let go of their previous relationship/s, they were unable to fully embrace the other person. So whether they are in this person life is then irrelevant, as they are still caught up in the past.
The Past
When the emotional pain of one’s past has not been processed, it can reappear when one experiences conflict in a relationship, and when one comes to an end. This emotional pain would have been trapped in one’s body and then all it takes to come to the surface is an internal or external trigger.
This could pain could be from previous relationships, the loss of a loved one or a pet and/or their childhood. Each of these represents a time that has passed; what has remained is the pain that wasn’t processed
Associations
The ego mind works by association and this means that when something happens in the present, it will search ones history to find other occurrences that are similar. So one will then be reminded of the times that they experienced any kind of loss in their life.
This whole process can happen unconsciously, but while one might not be aware of the memories that have been located, they will be aware of the feelings, thoughts and sensations that these memories trigger. However, if the emotional charge was no longer in these memories, one wouldn’t experience the same amount of pain.
If the pain was processed, the mind could associate what was happening now to past experiences and very little would happen. It would just be a memory and there would be nothing to pull one in.
Loss
So this all comes down to loss and while meeting someone and gradually getting close to them is pleasurable and fulfilling, what usually has a bigger impact on one’s life is when a relationship ends. There are at least two reasons for why this is; one goes back many, many years ago and the other goes back to ones childhood.
During the time when humans were living in caves, it was important that they had enough food. It wasn’t important that they had more than they needed; having enough was all that mattered. If they lost what they needed, it could have resulted in death.
And during ones childhood, being abandoned or left alone at a certain age would feel like death. At this age, one wouldn’t have had the ability to regulate their emotional experience or to survive by themselves. Loss would have been over overwhelming and felt like the end of the world.
External Factors
So this relates to ones inner experience and what can be taking place within. But while a breakup can be painful due to ones history and what loss means to the ego mind, there are also external factors involved.
Just as the mind will look for situations in ones past that match up with their current loss, it will also have formed associations around everything in their environment. And a lot of these associations are going to relate to the experiences one had with the person they were in a relationship with.
Meaning
Before one was in a relationship with the other person, ones environment would have had different meanings. But through being around them, new meanings would have been created. This can include: where ones lives; where they used to go together; the people they used to spend time with and different objects.
And all the time one spends their time in these places, around these people or has these objects around them, they will be reminded of the other person. And this can make it harder for one to take their mind off the other person, let alone to move on.
Moving On
So in order to move on from a breakup, one could let go of some of the external factors that are keeping their mind focused on the other person. In some cases, it might be necessary for one to change where they live in order move on. And other times, just taking a break from where they live for a few days, weeks or every now and then might be enough.
The places that one used to visit with the other person might be best avoided for a while; until their mind has settled down. One might not want to see certain people for a while and this is understandable. There could also be an item of clothing or a certain price of jewellery that will one need to be let go off or put to one side for a while.
Awareness
These are just a few ideas of what can keep one’s mind focused on another person when a breakup has taken place. The best approach will be for one to think about what it is in their environment that reminds them of the other person. And based on this observation, one can decide what the best course of action is.
Reaching out for support during this time will also be important. This could be through having a friend to talk to or seeking the assistance of a therapist, healer or a coach for instance.