Learning to let go after heartening relationship lapses

Many people loose the love of their lives suddenly for myriad of reasons. Some of them are legitimate while others are not.

However, given particular circumstances such as death of a boyfriend, girlfriends and more importantly husbands or wives, it can really be difficult learn to let go.

Death and the end of brimming affection









There is nothing as certain and abrupt as death and this is why every being of this earth live expectedly for his day to depart.

Nevertheless this has never been easy for those lovebirds who seen each other while in tears, happiness, success, failure and name them all.

How to Mend a Broken Heart and Get Your Ex Back!

More often than not, failed relationships end up with one broken heart. The other person goes out of the relationship, leaving the other one broken-hearted. The recovery from pain takes time to heal. To mend a broken heart, the following things should be done:

1. Forgive and forget. Forgive yourself and your partner. Learn to accept. Forgiving and accepting is important in moving on with the next chapter of your life. It is the first step in easing the pain of a broken heart.

2. Rebuild your self-respect. After a failed relationship, the next thing that will suffer is your self-esteem or pride. Here are helpful tips for rebuilding your self-esteem as a part of your step to mend broken heart:

Expectation - The Silent Killer by Dr. Pamela Zimmer

Expectation... such a great and powerful word. Most of us want our expectations not only fulfilled but exceeded. And why not? After all, don't I have the right to expect what I want, how I want it, when I want it, and in the precise manner I want it?

Sure you do! In fact, we all do! The problem comes in when you try to impose your expectations - great and otherwise - on someone else. Your boyfriend, your partner, or your husband, for instance. Here's where you begin wading in murky waters.