One thing you should say when you're around her is a
nice, genuine compliment. It's not as difficult as it seems! Here's what to do:
Think of what you like best about her. It could be her smile, her laugh, her
intelligence whatever strikes you as her best quality.
(The only caveat to
this is that you should not compliment her on any physical traits except her
eyes or her smile. She might have a great figure, but now's not
the time.)