High expectations in marriage is toxic

Marriage is one of the oldest arrangements put in place by the originator, the Almighty God. 
Couples are not silly if they expect things from one another because marriage is all about helping to support each other’s endeavors, provide love and respect. 
However, what seems to be toxic is high expectations. Some husbands and wives tend to have too many expectations in marriage; this may be extremely troublous. 

How to IMPRESS a Girl on Chat Be Confident


So as we all knows that first chats are like first dates and we have little amount of times to make our first impression on chat. As people say “first impression is the last impression”. So it is very important to say something to make a GREAT first impression that make a girl interested to chat more often.
It’s not just you everybody feels a little bit stressful when starting up the conversation for the first time.
Here you will learn some working strategies to make yourself irresistible over chat and make your online dating life easier.

How To Impress A Girl On Chat


Impressing a girl is the most difficult task to do for a boy and if you are in touch with her only through chatting it seems impossible to impress her.

Have you ever met a guy who just impressed his dream girl through chatting and now they both are living a happy life, surely you do know these types of guys but have you ever tried to ask them that How to Impress a Girl on Chat? They surely would not want to share this secret with you, so for your help we are posting some Tips to Impress Girl on Chatting which you may find very helpful if you implement once in real life.

[Beauty] What Makes Vegan Makeup Better Options?

Real vegans not only avoid meat products, but also go vegan even on things such as clothes and makeup. This means that they would never wear anything that is made from animal parts like leather.

Image result for vegan make upWhen it comes to vegan makeup, these are products that do not contain any animal products or ingredients that are animal derived. They are very similar to natural products because they are friendly to the environment and have natural ingredients, but natural cosmetics are not necessarily vegan since they do use ingredients like lanolin, elastin and wax which are substances got from the animals.

It is also important to note that there is a difference between vegan products and cruelty free products. Cruelty free products mean that they are not tested on animals, but they could still contain animal ingredients. Vegan beauty supports a very important cause, but besides this you also stand to enjoy lots of benefits from the vegan products because they are safer on the skin.

Why do men prefer women without makeup?


No Make UpOf course, we all understand that makeup makes women look prettier. After all, that is why there is still a thriving cosmetic industry. Therefore, if makeup makes women look prettier, why do most men prefer that their women go without it?

Countless men have come forward to say it: men generally prefer when a woman is not wearing makeup, or if at all she has to wear some, it should be minimal. 
1. Makeup tells about a woman’s insecurities

Metaphors Gone Wild: Hearts and Rejection


Although most of us echo Agatha Christie sentiments when it comes to rejection--"Everybody said, 'Follow your heart.' I did; it got broken."--rejection comes in many forms. In the business world, proposals are the metaphoric falls in love. And, they, too, can be rejected.

OTHERS WILL REJECT YOUR IDEAS FROM TIME TO TIME 
If your proposal is rejected, there are several ways to respond.

Tactfully Speaking: Giving and Receiving Advice

When offering advice to someone, especially if it is unsolicited, tact is an essential ingredient. In today's bombastic communications environment that is dominated by "reality" shows and infotainment-style "news" shows, where even presidential debates can devolve into scream fests and name calling is in vogue, it appears that the use and value of tact have been greatly diminished.

Tact comes easily for some but for most of us an awareness of its need, followed by lots of practice, are necessary. When a difficult conversation must take place, when in a negotiation, or even when relaxing and chatting with friends or family, tact is a useful skill. Tact adds subtlety and sophistication to one's communication style and enhances the perception of you as professional, competent, trustworthy and well-mannered. Tact is a basic component of relationship-building and maintenance, whether business or personal.

Reminders for when things do not go your way

I remember a quote from an unknown author which says “we all have problems and the way we solve them is what makes us different”. 
I bet we have all gone through stages in our lives when things do not seem to be moving in the direction we want it to. This happens because we all have a fixed idea of the direction our lives should take and how it should be.

Things A Woman Can Do To Help Keep Her Man From Losing His Temper

When doing these 8 things, a woman can stop the cycle of painful and needless arguments between herself and her man. Think of how nice it would be if these simple changes can help change the path of your relationship from bad to better.

1) Don't Stack Up The Complaints. Overwhelming a man is easy. Men tend to argue one point at a time and women seem to have an amazing ability with total grievance recall. A woman will surely win every argument if she stacks up her complaints. She will establish a victory because men generally do not have the same capacity for memory. He will only get frustrated and the only way he can balance the equation is to be mean. This usually leads to her listing all of the things he has done wrong. Her list, whether accurate or not, is overwhelming to her man. All of these memories can be debated, which typically happens, then results in never resolving anything.

How To Become An Instantly Better Listener

1) Passionate People Use A Lot Of Absolutes. Absolutes are words like always, never, everybody, nobody, everything and nothing. Words like these can drive you crazy if you listen to them literally. They can derail a conversion very quickly. Don't listen to absolutes verbatim. If you do, you will end up debating facts instead of communicating. Don't use them if you can help it.

2) Give Your Undivided Attention. Stop what you are doing when someone is talking to you.
If you are watching television, turn it off out of respect for the person who is talking. This is a great way to show value to someone. Do it for children, your partner, your friends and your parents. This gives a message that they are more important than what you are watching or doing. Do it without sighing or making an aggravated expression.

How Not to Fight

Myths and Expectations about Fighting:

There are many myths and expectations about fighting in marriage. Couples come into my office frequently believing that fighting is a necessary part of being a couple; that all married couples fight; and it's a normal part of marriage. But the fact is that fighting accomplishes nothing, and it isn't necessary for couples to argue, to yell, or to have heated discussions to get problems solved. Hanging on to these ideas makes it difficult to let go of fighting.

Created To Bond - Changes That Heal - Part A

Since God is a relational being and we were created in His image, we too are relational. We were created as relational beings and it does not matter who we are or what we may possess materially, we still need an emotional connection to other human beings. When we are outside of relationship, we lack the very essence that makes us who we are as a person. One of the most pervasive truths is that close connection with others is fundamental to our existence.

It has been said that no man is an island. Every person on the earth is related to someone else through family, associations, employment, religion and a myriad of other ways. At our very core we are relational beings and must be connected in some ay to others. In order to survive we draw on the resources of others for things that we do not have within ourselves nor can provide for ourselves without the assistance of someone else.

Created To Bond - Changes That Heal - Part B

Dr. Franklyn T. Johnson shared his opinion as per Created To Bond - Changes That Heal, here is what he said:

Failure To Develop Relationships

Emotional ties have a dramatic effect on our well-being. When one fails to develop relationships or bond with others, it can and often does affect their ability to stave off or recover from a variety of not only physical but also emotional ills. When they learn to attach to and trust others, they begin to develop not only emotionally, but also psychologically. Thus, their ability to bond with others... to become closely knit, often carryover into their home life.

Sex doll company reaches out to Wizkid on Twitter to offer him a free sex doll

After Wizkid lamented over the high cost of the newly invented sex dolls (a whopping N5.3M) a troll sex doll reached out to him via Twitter to propose a hook up with the Nigerian singer who obviously cherishes Oloshos more than dolls.

Wizkid had commented over the price of sex dolls by insinuating that he would rather go for Oloshos on the street than spend that much money on an artificial pleasure tool. According to the young singer, Oloshos are more affordable and off more pleasure than sex dolls. In response, a troll sex doll has responded to his disapproval of sex doll.

Things women should do after sex

After sex, most ladies just want to cuddle up their partner in bed and replay the great sex they had in their mind. This attitude is all lovey-dovey, I know, but guess what? It’s not ideal or healthy after all. 
Staying in bed for long moments after sex poses a lot of health risks for you as a lady. There is the risk of Urinary tract infection, and you can easily avoid this by taking a trip to the toilet to pee.  
There’s an endless list of things you should do

Stop stalking your ex

I will not play judge and jury because I have been at this point too. It seems even better when we convince ourselves we just want to move on faster. It becomes a cause for alarm, however, when you cannot help but check up on him, even when it makes you feel crappy.
I am not saying you should not be curious about his life. After all, you were a huge part of it. When you daily check on him a couple of times during the day and make it your job to know any new developments in his life like a new pet, friends and so on, it becomes a cause for alarm.
First things first, you need to make a conscious decision to move on from the relationship. 
Delete his number. This will reduce the temptation to casually check up or even be reminded of his existence. Unfriend him on all apps so that his name does not even have the chance to mistakenly pop up on your newsfeed.

Simi plays the role of a bridesmaid at her 61-year-old mom’s wedding


Sensational singer, Simi, who is of marriageable age, was captured walking her 61-year-old mother down the aisle on her wedding day as her bridesmaid. This was the second time Simi’s mother was walking down the aisle with her love.


Simi’s mom, who had been single since Simi was just nine years of age, found love again in the arms of a faithful man after coping with single motherhood for over 50 years. She must have really tried in abstaining from sexual activities for such a long time, unlike her dear daughter who became an expert in nurturing body chemistry with male singers. 
The single mother found love again and decided not to run the affair as an illicit one. Being a woman of virtue and honor, she thought it wise to remarry in order to have all the liberty in the world to get down with her love. Thankfully, the man subscribed to the idea and our beautiful Simi wasn’t left out of the plan. She actually played the bridesmaid!!!

Ugly mistakes women make that ruins any chances of a relationship


Everyone’s had a date that went wrong right from day one due to one reason or the other; this only affirms the fact that no one is perfect and so we are all bound to makes mistakes at a point while starting a relationship with someone. Some mistakes can be overlooked while on a date but some are just game-enders, meaning they destroy whatever hopes of getting into a healthy relationship with a guy. The following are ugly mistakes ladies should be wary of while dating.

Women vs sex dolls


It is both hilarious and embarrassing that women have seen it necessary to go up in arms against...sex dolls.

Related imageOkay, maybe calling these newfangled robots “dolls” is a gross understatement. They are state of the art, fully automated female robots that are formulated for pleasure. I have seen pictures of these units, and they look like they were pulled from the wet dreams of teenage boys everywhere. Exaggerated breasts and buttocks, flawless skin, and hair that can be cut in different styles. They are indeed, created to fulfill male fantasies.
You can only imagine why men are talking up a storm about them.

They Retain Your Trust, As You Retain Their Respect

"Pay attention when people react with anger and hostility to your boundaries. You have found the edge where their respect for you ends." - Unknown

CONDITIONAL love is the same as conditional respect. In response to safe boundaries some people respond by switching off their respect. Some people think that love and respect are dependent on how they feel. But effective relationships depend on love and respect if trust is to flow.

It's important to have had some relationships where our boundaries have been treated with disdain. It teaches us the difference between relationships that work for both parties as opposed to those that work for just one person. It's apparent straight away, that when relationships work for just one person, where there is respect just one way, the end of the relationship as it is needs to be nigh.

Oral Sex - A Threat Beyond Pleasure

Involved in oral sex with so many partners? It is time to think twice before you indulge in this pleasurable act with your partner next time? Why? It is Oropharyngael cancer - cancer of the head and throat. For most men who indulge in oral sex act with more than five partners in their lifetimes coupled with smoking can develop this deadly disease.

This rare type of cancer can occur to a man when exposed to human papilloma virus, known as HPV, as per the reports published in the news daily Annals of Oncology. Surprisingly, Head and neck cancer is likely to surpass the rate of cervical cancer found in women by 2020. Out of 17000 cases of carcinoma cases related to oropharyngeal cancer, 12000 cases belong to HPV. This is at an alarming rate, hence, a matter of apprehension.

3 Sex Tips Every Man Ought to Know

What really turns a woman on? Why do women take so much longer to have an orgasm, than men do? Does size matter? And if not... WHY not? Any of these questions sound familiar? If you are anything like the tens of thousands of men who enjoy our articles on sex, dating and relationships, they probably do, right?

Do you ever find yourself wondering if there are any REAL "secrets" to being great in bed? There is nothing more mysterious than what TRULY turns a woman on, and once you discover, she'll be yours forever, I promise!

Top Secrets of healthy People

Hmmm, those lucky ones that always seem healthier and more energized than us even without breaking their backs at the gym. What do these people seem to be doing that the rest of us are failing to? I really cannot help but feel a little bit of jealousy. Lucky for you, there are some not-so-secret moves that they are pulling and I have got you covered.

Seyi Shay testifies: My big butt is one of the good things that happened to me in 2017

Singer Seyi Shey recently recounted the pleasant things that made her 2017 worthwhile, and one of them was the acquisition of a big butt through the workout, as against the butt enlargement surgery fans believed she carried out.

Six misconceptions about slay queens



We all know who the slay queens are. They are the ones with the fab lives that they always splash on the internet. They always look glam and you can never catch them not killing it.

It is easy to see them from afar and come to certain conclusions about them. This category of people has been stereotyped and here are some of the unfair assumptions.

5 Online Dating Tips That Men Shouldn't Do Without

Before you create your online dating profile, sit down and think about what you are really out for. The kind of woman you would like to meet which includes her personality, hobbies, attitudes, her general disposition, qualifications etc. This will serve as a guide for you as you will be able to go after the woman of your dreams. Try to make this part of your profile but put it in a positive manner that won't turn off your kinda girl. This will also make the woman see you as someone who is focused and she also will work towards being that kind of woman.

Take charge

Getting rid of prolonged procrastination

You have probably heard and read about a zillion of procrastination messages. How come they do not work? Let us change tactics.
Personally, I tend to procrastinate when the task at hand appears too daunting for me. I mean, it is so complicated, so why bother? I developed a better solution. I take these magnificent tasks and break them into smaller tasks that appear doable without giving me a heart attack. Now, it is easy to do it and I feel good as I tick one completed tasks after another.

Dysfunctional Families - Reasons, Culprits and Innocent Sufferers

Image result for family crisisThe relationships within a nuclear family can be too much sensitive and delicate. At the same time, the strength that these relationships attain with time matches no other strength on the earth. There can be a number of external and internal factors in making this divine relationship weak.
The discussion on reasons can surely be too infinite to discuss in a single article. So I am going to discuss the most prominent and major reasons. Right from the outset of a marriage, some sane steps should be taken in order not to encounter future problem s. A wholehearted agreement should be made from both the sides and a thorough probation should be done from both the families which should be friendlier.

Is the Whole World Crazy or Is It Just Me?

Image result for family crisisDriving across town the other day I was nearly hit by four different vehicles. One ran a stop sign, another swerved in front of me and almost hit me and I'm sure the other two were on their cell phones. After a while I begin to think my life was at risk here.

I decided to drop into a little coffee shop and cool my heels a little bit. I ordered some coffee, took a table in the corner and just reflected on my day.
Why is it, I thought to myself, do people drive so crazy? How do they get a driver's license?
Reflecting a little more upon the subject it dawned on me that it is not limited to people driving on the highway. People are just simply crazy.

How Technology Affects Children


Image result for weird techOver the past few decades, technology has completely changed every aspect of our society, beginning from how we work to how we socialize and everything else in between. Technology has helped mankind with many advancements and comforts, but it also presents with some adverse consequences for our children. Technology does have many benefits for learning, but it can also have many negative effects in the development of a child. A couple of decades ago, children used to play outside all day long, riding bicycles, playing sports, and socializing with other children. They were masters of their own imaginary games. Nowadays, children as young as 2 years can be seen watching a cartoon or playing with a cell phone.

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