Reminders for when things do not go your way

I remember a quote from an unknown author which says “we all have problems and the way we solve them is what makes us different”. 

I bet we have all gone through stages in our lives when things do not seem to be moving in the direction we want it to. This happens because we all have a fixed idea of the direction our lives should take and how it should be.

Ugly mistakes women make that ruins any chances of a relationship

Everyone’s had a date that went wrong right from day one due to one reason or the other; this only affirms the fact that no one is perfect and so we are all bound to makes mistakes at a point while starting a relationship with someone. Some mistakes can be overlooked while on a date but some are just game-enders, meaning they destroy whatever hopes of getting into a healthy relationship with a guy. The following are ugly mistakes ladies should be wary of while dating.

Oral Sex - A Threat Beyond Pleasure

Involved in oral sex with so many partners? It is time to think twice before you indulge in this pleasurable act with your partner next time? Why? It is Oropharyngael cancer - cancer of the head and throat. For most men who indulge in oral sex act with more than five partners in their lifetimes coupled with smoking can develop this deadly disease.

This rare type of cancer can occur to a man when exposed to human papilloma virus, known as HPV, as per the reports published in the news daily Annals of Oncology. Surprisingly, Head and neck cancer is likely to surpass the rate of cervical cancer found in women by 2020. Out of 17000 cases of carcinoma cases related to oropharyngeal cancer, 12000 cases belong to HPV. This is at an alarming rate, hence, a matter of apprehension.

Ways to Get Your Girlfriend Back - Letting Her Go to Get Her Back again

It does not necessarily mean that you are giving up on the romantic relationship, nor does it signify that you no lengthier care about your girlfriend. Somewhat, letting her go signifies giving her the time and space away from you that permits her to miss you and know what she had. It's human nature to want elements only when we don't have them any more. When you efficiently offer with your private emotions, accept the breakup, and let her go, you shift the energy dynamic back in your favor.

I Broke Up With My Boyfriend and I Miss Him - Can I Get Him Back?

I left my sweetheart, it was my choice. However after that I realized it had been a terrible mistake and that I would like him back again.

What to do if that were your circumstances? To begin with you don't need to blame yourself and say" I split up with my sweetheart and I miss him". All that you should do is to create a reasonable strategy and try taking some action.

Loveable- How Do I Break Into A Locked/Forgotton pattern on My Android Device.

Must i call this Ha*king?
No I need'nt. Just some tips.

To prevent unwanted access to your phone, it is always wise
to set security measures in place. By design, Android devices
come with very nifty built-in security features that you can
set up to protect your device from prying eyes. Two of the
most commonly used security measures are the pattern lock
and the personal identification number (PIN). Unfortunately,
you may be locked out of your own Android device due to,
say, a forgotten password or an impenetrable yet too
complicated pattern lock. A cause for panic, to be sure, but
only a minor one as you can bypass these security measures
and break into your Android device so you can use it again.
Read the notification. If you have incorrectly

Time to Bring Back the Love - Love Poems to Save a Relationship by Mark J. Hamilton

Contrary to what most people say, love poems are not overrated. Yes, they're cheesy and could send you turning beet red in no time but come on, love is supposed to be corny. Remember during the first part of your relationship when things were totally tacky but it made both of you very happy? Fast forward to the future, you realize your relationship is on the rocks and small matters have become big and deep that it seemed that you're falling farther and farther apart. It's time to bring the corny back into your life! Yes, I'm talking about love poems to save a relationship. Let me explain why they can work...

Love poems can add a lot to communicate your affection for your girl. Have you ever felt that sudden urge to express your passion but don't know what to do so you end up doing nothing? Save all that drama and pour that fervor through writing. Love poems are cute and sweet, and there's no need for you to feel any remorse while reading or sending it to your girlfriend. Remember that girls long for romance and she will surely appreciate your effort.

The Most Common Mistake To Avoid When Trying To Get Back Your Ex by Ashish Patel

Situation Example: Royston and Hanna had broken up 1 month ago. However, Royston missed Hanna a lot and thought of getting back together with her again. So he set up a little lunch date with Hanna. As the lunch date went better than expected, Royston decided to take the date a little longer than the 20 minutes date as planned. As the conversation went on, Royston felt more and more optimistic about getting Hanna back and finally expressed his desire to get back together with her. To his disbelief and disappointment, Hanna rejected the idea without any deep consideration. The great lunch date suddenly turned into an awkward meeting for both and ended with a bitter goodbye. That lunch date left a bad impression on Royston and Hanna would think twice before agreeing to another one on one meeting with Royston again.
From the example above, this is a situation that we regard as premature reconciliation. Premature reconciliation usually ends with a failure in recapturing your love and ruins your one and only chance to get back with ex again.
The biggest mistake committed by Royston is overstaying for the lunch date. He should have stick with the original plan of 20 minutes or so for the date and ended the lunch date even if it went really well. Most people will not have the determination to end a date when it is going extremely well, so it may be a good idea to schedule something else after the date. This is to make sure that you leave before you have too much time together with your ex.
You must always keep in mind NOT to move forward too fast with your ex during your first date after your break up. You may not be spending much time with your ex, but most important you must relax and have a good time with your ex, leaving him/her wanting more and anticipating for her next date with you. If you are lucky enough, your ex may even ask for another date with you before you bid farewell.
Another common mistake committed by girls is sleeping with their ex too soon. Even if your dates with your ex are going really well, you should NOT sleep with him until you get a re-commitment from him. You seriously do NOT want to go back to bed with your ex until you are sure you are getting back together for good. An important fact about men is that they value what they work for and what are rare more. Thus, they will only commit to a woman who is valuable, special and rare to them. Sleeping with your ex after a date or two will only make you seems "easy" and "normal" for the guys.
When you are refusing to sleep with him when everything is going well, you will drive him crazy thinking about the reason for the your refusal. This will give you a psychological advantage over him as you suddenly become a mystery to him and start gaining more respect from him, which can eventually lead to a true reconciliation and commitment in the relationship. If he still insists on an answer for not sleeping with him, simply tell him that you are done with casual sex. This incredible answer shows him that you make that decision to uphold your value, not because of him.
Premature reconciliation will always be the ultimate disaster in your path of getting back your ex. The reason is that reconciliation from a break up is like a second chance for your relationship with your ex. Therefore, you must learn to do it the correct way in order to increase your success rate in getting back your ex and happiness in your life.

8 Ways to Win Your Man Back After a Break-Up. by Dawie Mostert

8 Ways to win your man back after a break-up

Stop Listening to Your Girlfriends - Here's What You Need to do to Get Him Back
Some times after a senseless quarrel you find that your boyfriend decided to dump you whilst you really still love him dearly. This can be one of the most difficult things a girl can go through. When it's all said and done, you have one though on your mind - getting him back.
Particularly as you suspect that he still has feelings for you.
Who else have you got to turn to but your girlfriends? You know your girlfriends have your back. But, when it comes to tactics to get your ex back, they just may be steering you in the wrong direction. They could, well meaning as they may be, even be hurting your chances of success.
Your girlfriends have always been there to hear you out. They laughed and shared your joy. They've given you shoulders to cry on. They've even shared their super secret chocolate stashes with you to help you get through some past crisis's in your life.
Now, they're offering you the best advice they have to give on how to get him back. Unfortunately, their advice is based on the rules girls play by and they aren't going to be all that effective at getting him back. If you really want to win him back, you're going to have to play the game by his rules - to some degree as this is more a boy's game now.
Play a Girl's Game with the Boy's Rule Book;
1)Never drool over him, give the impression that you really don't care.
2)Never let him see you coming. Your number one priority right now is to get him back. That means you have to concentrate and dedicate yourself to the task. But, you have to do it in a subtle way that doesn't look like you're trying to get him back. Don't show your hands because he'll constantly be watching and waiting for you to make your move.
3)Show the world you've moved on. This includes your girlfriends. Smile. Go out and join the crowd. Fake it until you have everyone convinced that you truly have moved on.
4)Whatever you do don't try and make him jealous as that might just work against you, remember your main aim is to get your boyfriend back.
5)Let him know you've got game. All the time that you're trying to show everyone you've moved on, you need to invest in making yourself over from the inside out.
6)Show that you love life and that you are content with your circumstances, smile frequently but naturally because you know the game you are playing.
7)Become the stronger, more independent woman you've always wanted to be. Get a makeover. Change your hair style. Learn to walk in those six-inch heels guys love so much. Become confident in your own skin. Once you've accomplished all this - then you let him see you coming and watch the fireworks as he takes in the new you.
8)When he give an indication that he is interested in making up again, don't play hard to get but talk sensible and discuss your future together as adults.
Make it clear that this is not just another trial and error period. Let him understand that you are serious about the future and the relationship.
Why is this so effective?
In relationships, you often begin to take each other for granted. The more you learn about each other, the fewer mysteries there are to uncover. The most insignificant discrepancies can result in major issues.
Now it's your turn to make an impact. You're presenting him with a whole new you and many more mysteries to unlock. It's a curious mystery he's powerless to resist - especially if there ever were genuine feelings on his part.
And your girlfriends? Will again share in your joy and love you regardless of whether you take their advice or not.