HOW TO REKINDLE YOUR SEX LIFE & MARRIAGE.
"As a sex therapist, I'd say that the most common problem married couples bring to me is the lack of passion in their relationship," says popular relationship expert Kathleen Falken.
"And, after a few questions, the most common problem is that modern life's stresses and obligations are usually the culprit. The love and common values that first attracted them are still there. It's just a problem of being a bit more aggressive in expressing their sexual wants and needs. Especially in the woman.
"In fact, with older couples, it's the men who often express that they'd love their women to be a bit more expressive of their sexuality!"
Sexual issues can have a major impact on couples who are in a relationship. Sexual issues, for example, can lead to depression, increased stress or feelings of abandonment. If not treated soon, it can also lead to a divorce or break-up.
In order to have a healthy relationship, it's critical that the couples in a marriage or long-time relationship are able to overcome their sexual issues.
Some therapists believe that "Scheduling times to have sex has proven to be very helpful. The time does not have to be at night, when the couple is tired.
"It can be during your younger child's afternoon nap or before work. It can be every other Friday night when the kids are at a sleepover - whatever it is, make it a plan. Some discourage against marking sex down on the calendar, while others believe it increases the anticipation, which is healthy for a relationship."
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In iVillage's National Married Sex survey, 75% of wives said a healthy sex life was important to them. "This research sets the record straight - married women definitely value good sex in their relationships," explained Liz Zack, editorial director of Love and Sex at iVillage.
"But despite the fact that most married women value sex, the survey also found that two thirds would rather do something else other than get it on, such as go to the spa, watch a movie, use FaceboOK or chat with friends.
"I understand the choices these wives are making. Through twenty-four years of marriage, staying intimately connected with my husband helped us weather some severe storms that are part of every long-term relationship. Working full time, raising kids, and juggling all the daily tasks of family, it is easy to morph into becoming logistical strategists. I, too, found myself saying 'not tonight, honey' way too often!"
Sexologist Dr. Kat Van Kirk explains that couples "tend to find a lot more negotiable in their sex lives than they realized when they start to talk about it with their partners honestly.
"Plan a special night together and bring up the issue over a romantic dinner. Talk about what you respond to sexually. If you find it difficult to come up with good ideas, watch some erotic videos with varying themes and see what your body (and your mind) responds to. This can be a great way for couples to find things that turn them both on."
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Recently, we at Free-Online-Dating collected the best 33 Romantic Ideas to rekindle the sexuality in a marriage. Here are the TOP FIVE:
1. SEXT HIM. Sexting is hot. Send him a hot text message at work, promising him a night like he's never had. Take a Naked Selfie and send it to him on his smartphone, reminding him what he's been missing.
2. ADULT MOVIE NIGHT. Get a steamy adult movie. Either a Hollywood release with R rating for nudity - or an outright XXX Adult film. Today, some of the best naughty movies are being produced by women, who treat women more realistically and with less exploitation than the more classic porn.
3. SEX INSTRUCTION VIDEO. Many women don't know just how fascinated men are by the Female Orgasm - and learning how give the Love of Their Lives intense pleasure. There are a number of very exciting Sex Instruction Videos available online that focus on the Female Orgasm. Secretly download one on his home computer, put a desktop icon or app to it on his screen - and let him discover it!
4. SEXY LINGERIE. OK, that first night, when you wore that red sexy lingerie, he was only interested in getting you naked. The red thing was just pretty wrapping on the Gift: you. But now, you'd be surprised at how that same sheer lingerie would make him gasp.
5. "DO YOU STILL MASTURBATE?" For most of us, that question still floors us. Most men and women never discuss self pleasure, even otherwise intimate couples. In fact, some women don't even masturbate at all. When you've both settled in bed for another quiet night, throw THAT question at him. It's the Bomb In The Bed question. Don't let him squirm out of it. Talk about it. How did he first learn? Your own history. After a while, offer to show him how you do it - if he will show you how he does it, after. Actually, you may both learn things you didn't know about each other's sexuality - like preferred rhythm, speed and pressure. It's a good way to begin teaching him how to perform cunnilingus on you...
==>> TO SEE ALL 33 OF THE HOTTEST WAYS TO TURN ON YOUR HUSBAND - Go Now To BEST SEX TIPS TO SEXUALLY AROUSE & PLEASE YOUR MAN At http://www.free-online-dating.00me.com/cgi-bin/blog/view_post/944688
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==>> FOR MORE ARTICLES & ADVICE FOR WOMEN AND MEN FROM SOME OF AMERICA'S TOP RELATIONSHIP & SEXUAL HEALTH EXPERTS, go to http://www.free-online-dating.00me.com
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WOMEN'S TOP 5 SEX TIPS To Arouse Your Husband in the Bedroom!
This is a Free Article and can be freely reprinted as such on your Website, or as a Guest Blog posting on your own Blog.
"As a sex therapist, I'd say that the most common problem married couples bring to me is the lack of passion in their relationship," says popular relationship expert Kathleen Falken.
"And, after a few questions, the most common problem is that modern life's stresses and obligations are usually the culprit. The love and common values that first attracted them are still there. It's just a problem of being a bit more aggressive in expressing their sexual wants and needs. Especially in the woman.
"In fact, with older couples, it's the men who often express that they'd love their women to be a bit more expressive of their sexuality!"
Sexual issues can have a major impact on couples who are in a relationship. Sexual issues, for example, can lead to depression, increased stress or feelings of abandonment. If not treated soon, it can also lead to a divorce or break-up.
In order to have a healthy relationship, it's critical that the couples in a marriage or long-time relationship are able to overcome their sexual issues.
Some therapists believe that "Scheduling times to have sex has proven to be very helpful. The time does not have to be at night, when the couple is tired.
"It can be during your younger child's afternoon nap or before work. It can be every other Friday night when the kids are at a sleepover - whatever it is, make it a plan. Some discourage against marking sex down on the calendar, while others believe it increases the anticipation, which is healthy for a relationship."
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In iVillage's National Married Sex survey, 75% of wives said a healthy sex life was important to them. "This research sets the record straight - married women definitely value good sex in their relationships," explained Liz Zack, editorial director of Love and Sex at iVillage.
"But despite the fact that most married women value sex, the survey also found that two thirds would rather do something else other than get it on, such as go to the spa, watch a movie, use FaceboOK or chat with friends.
"I understand the choices these wives are making. Through twenty-four years of marriage, staying intimately connected with my husband helped us weather some severe storms that are part of every long-term relationship. Working full time, raising kids, and juggling all the daily tasks of family, it is easy to morph into becoming logistical strategists. I, too, found myself saying 'not tonight, honey' way too often!"
Sexologist Dr. Kat Van Kirk explains that couples "tend to find a lot more negotiable in their sex lives than they realized when they start to talk about it with their partners honestly.
"Plan a special night together and bring up the issue over a romantic dinner. Talk about what you respond to sexually. If you find it difficult to come up with good ideas, watch some erotic videos with varying themes and see what your body (and your mind) responds to. This can be a great way for couples to find things that turn them both on."
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Recently, we at Free-Online-Dating collected the best 33 Romantic Ideas to rekindle the sexuality in a marriage. Here are the TOP FIVE:
1. SEXT HIM. Sexting is hot. Send him a hot text message at work, promising him a night like he's never had. Take a Naked Selfie and send it to him on his smartphone, reminding him what he's been missing.
2. ADULT MOVIE NIGHT. Get a steamy adult movie. Either a Hollywood release with R rating for nudity - or an outright XXX Adult film. Today, some of the best naughty movies are being produced by women, who treat women more realistically and with less exploitation than the more classic porn.
3. SEX INSTRUCTION VIDEO. Many women don't know just how fascinated men are by the Female Orgasm - and learning how give the Love of Their Lives intense pleasure. There are a number of very exciting Sex Instruction Videos available online that focus on the Female Orgasm. Secretly download one on his home computer, put a desktop icon or app to it on his screen - and let him discover it!
4. SEXY LINGERIE. OK, that first night, when you wore that red sexy lingerie, he was only interested in getting you naked. The red thing was just pretty wrapping on the Gift: you. But now, you'd be surprised at how that same sheer lingerie would make him gasp.
5. "DO YOU STILL MASTURBATE?" For most of us, that question still floors us. Most men and women never discuss self pleasure, even otherwise intimate couples. In fact, some women don't even masturbate at all. When you've both settled in bed for another quiet night, throw THAT question at him. It's the Bomb In The Bed question. Don't let him squirm out of it. Talk about it. How did he first learn? Your own history. After a while, offer to show him how you do it - if he will show you how he does it, after. Actually, you may both learn things you didn't know about each other's sexuality - like preferred rhythm, speed and pressure. It's a good way to begin teaching him how to perform cunnilingus on you...
==>> TO SEE ALL 33 OF THE HOTTEST WAYS TO TURN ON YOUR HUSBAND - Go Now To BEST SEX TIPS TO SEXUALLY AROUSE & PLEASE YOUR MAN At http://www.free-online-dating.00me.com/cgi-bin/blog/view_post/944688
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==>> FOR MORE ARTICLES & ADVICE FOR WOMEN AND MEN FROM SOME OF AMERICA'S TOP RELATIONSHIP & SEXUAL HEALTH EXPERTS, go to http://www.free-online-dating.00me.com
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WOMEN'S TOP 5 SEX TIPS To Arouse Your Husband in the Bedroom!
This is a Free Article and can be freely reprinted as such on your Website, or as a Guest Blog posting on your own Blog.
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