These tips work equally well for women looking to impress men and are
really just about mutual respect. What's "hotter" than that?
1. Act like an adult. This is such a big one, guys. Let's first
discuss what is not acting like an adult. Basically, it's doing
anything a 13-year-old girl would do.This includes, but is not limited
to: ignoring texts, ending texts with "!!!" or "?!", throwing
tantrums, calling names and making statements to which "I know you
are, but what am I?" could be accurately applied.
2. Make a decision. Wishy-washy is not decisive. Decisive is secure.
Women like secure.
3. Think things through and have a plan. Throwing caution to the wind
is fun when you're booking a weekend getaway, not when you're looking
at your future.
4. Have an opinion about things. Just recognize that it's just an
opinion and allow room for the opinions of others. Especially hers.
Especially in front of other people.
5. Be transparent. If you want to see her, say so. If it's just a
booty call, say so. If you want a relationship, say so. If you're not
sure what you want, leave her alone.
6. Be as supportive and proud of her career as you are of yours.
Believe me, this will set you apart.
8. Bring her flowers. Do this on days that are not her birthday, your
anniversary or one on which you screwed up. Better yet, screw the
flowers. Write her a letter.
9. Give good eye contact. Seriously, it works like giving her two
glasses of wine.
10. Invite her out. Ask her if there is any place that she'd like to
go or if you can make the plans. Then make some great ones and be on
time.
11. When you ask her how her day was… Pay attention to her response.
Listen to it and ask if you can help before you start telling her what
to do.
12. You know what your mother said? It was rude.
13. Ask her to dance. Bonus points if you're alone in your apartment.
14. Unless it's a threat to your life or the life of someone you love,
handle your s%$ like nothing can break you. Not because you're not
vulnerable, but because S%#@ happens and you're smart and strong
enough to deal with life.
15. Stay quiet and calm when you want to yell and scream. Do you
really want to look like a teething 2-year-old?
16. Treat her the way you would want a man to treat your daughter.
Would you want a man to start sending or asking for body shots as soon
as he got her number?
17. Give her the benefit of the doubt. Especially when you least think
she deserves it.
18. Trust her. Don't assume friendships with men mean she can be
stolen from you, wants to make you jealous or doesn't respect you.
19. If you're going to end it, end it clearly, respectfully and with
dignity. Don't play the "I need time" game. If, in time, you want her
back, come back and see if she still wants you and go from there.
20. Call when you say you will call, be where you say you will be, do
what you say you will do. Enough said.
21. Know when — and how — to apologize. Don't be sorry she felt that
way, be sorry you did it.
22. Use your words wisely. Communicate effectively. Clarify
misunderstandings. Say "I love you" and "I am sorry" and "I will call
you" only when you mean it.
23. When she gets emotional, don't do any of the following. Mention
anything having to do with any time of month, refer to her as a "nag"
(or worse), try and "fix" it, tell her she "should not" feel that way
or respond with any statement that shows that you have it worse than
she does.
24. Be respectful, even when you're mad. Even when ending it. Even
after you have ended it. Even if she will never know.
25. Know the difference between opinion and fact.
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