However, given particular circumstances such as death of a boyfriend, girlfriends and more importantly husbands or wives, it can really be difficult learn to let go.
Death and the end of brimming affection
There is nothing as certain and abrupt as death and this is why every being of this earth live expectedly for his day to depart.
Nevertheless this has never been easy for those lovebirds who seen each other while in tears, happiness, success, failure and name them all.
It becomes utterly difficult to believe that pursuing another relationship with a different person would work as exceptionally as with the first lover.
I have met so many women to be precise, who after their husbands pass on remains married to their past relationships.
I am not saying that it is easy for any man to loose his beloved wife; several widowers though are able to marry within some few months.
How do women deal with the lament?
The love of a woman for a man she of her dreams is so intensely emotional than physical. When she fall in love completely, it is not easy to turn back and reject what she feels inside.
It is for this reason that after tying the knot, it is not many women who treasure secret lovers; for them it is truly till death does as part.
When the sudden departure comes for their true loves, this brings along too much suffering to women who sustained true love and relationships.
They can lament their husband's death for years without ever thinking of risking their weak hearts for loving other men.
In fact so many of them keep seeing the ghost of their husbands in their marital beds that they hardly believe in pleasure after seeing another man's "exhibit" after he gets his pants down for her.
She is only deluded by the beauty of the relationship she shared with her late husband. The fear of moving on after his death becomes so pronounced that she or many widows remain superglue to the memory of the dead.
Nevertheless, contrary to men, women were made to love and nurture others who may be the kids in this particular case.
It is at this time that women roll up their sleeves and feed their children all by themselves.
The upkeep of their children who may not have any money or assets to inherit from their departed fathers becomes their reasons for living.
How men deal with the grieve
If there are any pretenders I know of, it is our stronger sex or men if you like. Whoever said a man shall not weep lest he expose his weakness to the world his is supposed to defend did a great disservice to this part of the mankind.
It is for this reason that our men are getting heart attacks, depression and mental illness after their wives not only dies but divorces them after discovering their hanky panky games.
Women show their vulnerability openly whether there is minute or bigger problems. This is why they are well accustomed to deal with painful situations better than men.
