I think a fundamental question faced by men in the pursuit of attracting
women is: Can attracting women be learned? Is it a result of genetics –
of having been gifted with prominent cheekbones, lean muscularity or a
sizable organ? Or perhaps having a prominent checkbook and the right
surname? Is it about having a naturally outgoing personality, charisma,
and sharp wit? Or perhaps possession of influence and personal power?
As complex as women are, there is no one answer to explain their
preferences. As individuals, they, like we, are different – with
different genetics, different experiences, and therefore, different
tastes. And it’s been said – there’s no accounting for taste. So, it may
be true that to some women, height and good looks matter a lot. Some
schools of thought say that women value financial security more. Others
say that personality, masculinity, sense of humor, or any of a variety
of different criteria matters most.
And so, the questions must of necessity be: Is it possible to attract
women, and if so, can any man do it? And will it work with ANY woman
specifically? The answer is yes, and no.
Yes, in the sense that it is possible to attract the kind of women that
you like, and who would like you in return, but whom you need to
actively attract to you. This requires you to learn the techniques for
attracting women, and actively engaging in the pursuit. Sitting at home
simply won’t do; you have to go out and approach them. Attracting women
involves the application of learned skills in a consistent and
persistent fashion. Just like any skill, it’s all about practice and
playing the probabilities. You simply have to keep approaching women.
When you play the numbers, however, remember that your chances of
winning can be enhanced by other things besides the application of the
techniques. Some of your strengths can be emphasized, and your
weaknesses downplayed. For example, age differential, or shortness, or
obesity may hinder you to some extent, but should not stop you. Instead,
play to your strengths, and remember that women’s preferences are not
all the same. If you persist, you WILL succeed in attracting women.
However, it is not possible to attract all women, or just any specific
one. If there were a specific woman that you wanted to attract, but who
is simply not interested or attracted to you, no skill or technique or
persistence is guaranteed to work. History is replete with stories of
unrequited love – of men who thought that they can make a woman want
them. If they had simply tried to attract other women instead, and kept
persisting, they would have been met with success.
