Are you one of those ladies who turn their man into money machines and even brag about it thinking it's your right?! You don't need to lie you ain't in the club of gold diggers, your conscience is justifying you already and sweetheart, here's the mess you turn yourself into when you live off your partner.
You become overly dependent
That one is obvious enough and it's the most unappealing! Darn girl! Not being able to walk into a mall and shop for your own stuff knowing you are spending your own hard-earned cash is just wack! Calling onto your man every time you are in need of a new wardrobe or a new tube of lip gloss, screams you can't stand on your own feet! Being dependent on a man is a big turn off and also an indication of immaturity.
You appear cheap
Yeah, that instant you demand money from your man incessantly cos he happens to be in a relationship with you, you strip yourself of your dignity and self-esteem. If you are living off you man don't go about saying you have class or pride. Miss, you sold that already! Even your man starts evaluates your worth each time you start with your demands! Gosh! That's so gross.
You don't get a shot at long-term relationship
8 out of 10 ladies get dumped when their partner gets to know they are just after money. No man in his right mind would court or Wed you when he knows you are just gonna be a leech on his finances! If you want a long term thing with guys then you need to get your butt out there working to get your own pay! Even if that guy loves you with your wild streak of dependency you don't want to take any chances cos even ATM machines do stop dispensing!
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