Dysfunctional Families - Reasons, Culprits and Innocent Sufferers

The relationships within a nuclear family can be too much sensitive and delicate. At the same time, the strength that these relationships attain with time matches no other strength on the earth. There can be a number of external and internal factors in making this divine relationship weak.

The discussion on reasons can surely be too infinite to discuss in a single article. So I am going to discuss the most prominent and major reasons. Right from the outset of a marriage, some sane steps should be taken in order not to encounter future problem s. A wholehearted agreement should be made from both the sides and a thorough probation should be done from both the families which should be friendlier.

As for the cultural difference, the west seems to be more incline d towards marriage that boy and girl decide only while the east tend to get the whole procedure done through families. Whatever the procedure is both the sides should have some time to think about it carefully and wisely. Once the decision is made, stand by it in any case. If all the decisions are made without much thinking and with the blink of an eye they can prove to be regretting later on.

After getting hitched a heavy load of responsibilities is ahead of you. One of the biggest responsibilities is to 'never give up'. For doing this, patience is needed. Lack of patience can lead to smaller problems getting bigger day by day. In many cases, they can be unable to curb. Spending a happy life as a couple does not mean you are void of problems for the lifetime. Once you have kids the responsibility and forbearance have to be doubled than before. After being parents any act of ignorance can result in a broken relationship.

In the first place, parents must be held accountable. As for the ethnic societies, the ethnic culture seems to be dependent upon the elderly people deciding for marriages. When elderly people make the same mistake of not thinking much the result is a dysfunctional family. Despite the fact that there can be other people responsible for this husband and wife can bring tremendous change.

Whatever the problems are the ones who suffer the most in all this are children. They are the innocents that know and do nothing from first to the last yet pay most of all. Their mental and physical abilities can be affected grossly. Their future can be wretchedly disastrous.