Why You Should Do Away With Dating Types #Updated

When it comes to choosing an ideal date, some people always have a certain type in mind. It allows them to choose from possible candidates and select someone whom they think can be the best one. But while some may consider having dating types, there are also certain disadvantages involved. There are times when you simply need to do away with them. Here are some  of the reasons why.

Your ideal type might not be what you need in a relationship.

Best ways to get your body back after pregnancy

Gaining weight during pregnancy is inevitable, however with some dedication and lots of patience you can work towards having your model perfect body back in no time! So if as a new mom, you've gotten the basics covered with caring for your little one you might want to walk on getting your body and your self-confidence back ASAP!

Get some exercise

Relationships: it’s not a favour

I often tell people that relationships are like transactions. When you go to the market, you exchange a commodity for some value (money) and so everyone goes home happy. In the same way, in a relationship, no one should feel slighted, taken advantage of or better than the other.
A friend of mine was once involved in a relationship for all the wrong reasons. I say her reasons were wrong because it was all base on pity. He had always liked and had been asking her out for like forever. After a while, she could not take it anymore. She began rationalizing why she ought to date him: he was simple, caring, attentive, quiet and an overall nice guy. She didn’t feel butterflies in her belly around him but they could at least maintain a decent conversation for a while. She said ‘yes’, believing it was not such a bad idea not to date him since he wasn’t a bad guy.
Now, you should understand why I said the relationship was wrong. It goes without saying that the relationship did not last long and that brings me to my point. Going into a relationship with a guy you know you are no crazy about is a bad idea. It is even worse when you date him as a favor to improve his image or out of pity.
What right do you have to do that? Get off your high horse and stop giving out hand-outs. You would do him a greater service when you say ‘no’ and stand by it, no matter how he insists and no matter how heartless you seem. It is best for both of you if you date a person because you genuinely like the person, else you are setting each other up for confusion and heartache.

When is it too early to have live-in dependents?

Almost every family in Nigeria has that uncle, cousin or aunt that lives with them. In fact, very few of us grew up without such people in our homes. The understanding that one must be his brother’s keeper is ingrained in us. However, could it ever be too early for a couple to have someone staying with them?

Things you should never do your vagina

Most of the time we ladies take extreme measures to ensure our vag is smelling like a rose garden or indulge in some stuff that we think could benefit our down there in some way. However, most of the time they do more harm than good. Therefore, it's extremely important you know what's harmful to your vagina health.

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